I should be happy my husband died quickly??? He may have suffered longer had he lived.

Opinions such as this are intolerable, insensitive, and cruel
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How about if I wished he didn't die at all?
Didn't suffer at all?
How in the world can people think anyone who says that their loved one died too quickly could ever feel they wanted them to suffer short or long time?
And they should be happy about their death?

Please do not come on here and argue with me.
I'm in more than enough pain already.... Anybody trying to convince me it was a great thing my husband died is just going to be deleted and if they persist they will be blocked.

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HootyTheNightOwl

That's something that my mother would have said.

I mean, it's alright that my "dad" physically abused me to the point where I dissociate and scream to this day - at least he didn't sexually abuse me.

No, mum, you were the only one who was doing that.

I try to understand them both, but I lack the logic to see their thinking in matters such as this.