I should be happy my husband died quickly??? He may have suffered longer had he lived.

Opinions such as this are intolerable, insensitive, and cruel
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How about if I wished he didn't die at all?
Didn't suffer at all?
How in the world can people think anyone who says that their loved one died too quickly could ever feel they wanted them to suffer short or long time?
And they should be happy about their death?

Please do not come on here and argue with me.
I'm in more than enough pain already.... Anybody trying to convince me it was a great thing my husband died is just going to be deleted and if they persist they will be blocked.

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nedkelly · 61-69, M

The only person who can answer this question is you, his time was up and would you be able to look after a person who is in a vegetation state and cannot do anything for himself

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@nedkelly that is not the point he was not a vegetable before he got cancer I didn't want him to die I would never want him to suffer it doesn't make me happy he died early

nedkelly · 61-69, M

@Justmeraeagain I wonder if you are going through the angry phase of grief, it took me about 8 years to forgive my son for passing away. I know that you are struggling with his death remember the good times and stay strong 🥰😇

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@nedkelly I do recognize that there is an angry phase but I don't need people telling me it was a good thing that my husband died early I just don't need that