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I should be happy my husband died quickly??? He may have suffered longer had he lived.

Opinions such as this are intolerable, insensitive, and cruel
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How about if I wished he didn't die at all?
Didn't suffer at all?
How in the world can people think anyone who says that their loved one died too quickly could ever feel they wanted them to suffer short or long time?
And they should be happy about their death?

Please do not come on here and argue with me.
I'm in more than enough pain already.... Anybody trying to convince me it was a great thing my husband died is just going to be deleted and if they persist they will be blocked.
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BamPow · 51-55, M Best Comment
Sometimes there are no silver linings, and someone who has experienced such a world shattering loss isn’t looking for one where none exist. There are events in life without a bright side, and it’s more hurtful than some people can imagine when they insist on confronting you with one they’ve theorized. I’m sorry for your loss and sorry that people who don’t understand mistakenly believe that they do.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@BamPow Yes,no comfort in such words.
Glad someone understands