I have a funeral to go to and I’m stressed about it.

My uncle passed a couple days ago. Reason I am stressed is cause my mom told me before she passed she did not want that side of the family to be informed when she died (in 2021) so I followed her wishes even though I personally disagreed with them. Anyway, this will be the first time I will have seen that side of the family since then. Should be nice and awkward…

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smiler2012 · 61-69

@DoubleRings yes i can understand why you feel awkward but that was you mums final wish and really need respecting irrespective of personal feeling . you are going too this funeral for one and one reason only and that is too pay your final respects too your late uncle. if you are made feel unwelcome as really why should you be as this was not your call and there is a wake there is no need for you too go as you have done what you intended to do