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That’s been a tough question for me the last few days. Knowing that my marriage is done and we will be working towards a separation and then a divorce has been hard. Really hard. I guess my kids are the big thing and also that small hope that once I heal, it gets better.
Ynotisay · M
@ShadowedWhispers It does. Guaranteed. People change. And there's nothing wrong with that. Life's fluid. And short. It's meant to be experienced as positively as we can. Good luck.
@Ynotisay ty for you kind words. this has been very challenging for me. we were closing on twenty years married and a certain part of my identity was tied up in husband. So this has been very jarring to my whole person.
@Ynotisay but again, thank you.
Ynotisay · M
@ShadowedWhispers Nothing easy about it. For sure. And 20 years is a long time. I just hope it's something you never regret. It brought you both to where you are and helped you understand who you are. That's a good thing. Resentment and anger is self-defeating. Hope you both move forward with good vibes. Better than the alternative. The reality is we only get one shot at this and it's a solo. Whether you're with someone or not. Might as well find our happy lanes. No reason not too. Good luck.
@Ynotisay thank you, sir. I appreciate your words.
Ynotisay · M
@ShadowedWhispers You've got this. 👍
@Ynotisay ty 🤘