If your SO died, how deep would be the personal crisis?

Do you know who you are without your spouse? Your identity is tied to it

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If I had one, I would move forward. Love that is true never dies. My partner would be happy for my philosophy as I would move forward, carrying love. People need to make lives while with someone. Love means loving yourself that way too. ❤️

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@PoetryNEmotion The truth is that is exactly what happens. You live on.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@JimboSaturn Some do not. They wallow and die. Beloved ones who die do not want that for them. Not just survive. Thrive again in time.

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@PoetryNEmotion Im not claiming to be tough but my family survies at all cost but Im not sure what I would do. I know that is vague.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@JimboSaturn What have you done to prepare? Are you fine and happy in your lie alone too? Start there. You have passions? Do you follow them?

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@PoetryNEmotion Yes I have passions but my indenity us tied up as a couple. Hard to articulate

caesar7 · 61-69, M

@JimboSaturn true..very hard

PoetryNEmotion · F

@JimboSaturn I understand. Really. You must have time apart to live too. One never knows....I do though.