If your SO died, how deep would be the personal crisis?
Do you know who you are without your spouse? Your identity is tied to it
51-55, M
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BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@BarbossasHusband It would suck big time
PoetryNEmotion · F
@BarbossasHusband That is sad. Would he want that for you? Love is not sacrifing yourself with him. Je-sus.
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
@PoetryNEmotion he's imaginary. I'm just imagining if he was real
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@BarbossasHusband My wife just got over breast cancer but this weekend she went away and I was lonely and unhappy. Just imagining
PoetryNEmotion · F
@BarbossasHusband Your imagination is not....realistic. Do you want to be devastated in death? Work on that. And find someone to hold your hand in love.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@JimboSaturn Work on it. If you, god forbid, lost her, how would you cope? Trees lose valuable limbs and still grow.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@PoetryNEmotion Yes I know. Im a survivor but This is this first time Ive admitted in not 100% confident in myself
PoetryNEmotion · F
@JimboSaturn You realize it. Now you can work on it.