I'm afraid to have children

Children for me are these black shadowy shilouettes with question marks over their faces that lurk in my subconscious. I treasure my nieces but when it comes to children of my own I freeze. It's a lot of responsibility, money and commitment and you can't really mess it up or you might mess your children up. I know im not the most responsible at times and have issues of my own. I'm a good uncle but father is entirely different.

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Magicianzini · M

Right, not doing that ever again. I did it for a while (was with a woman with kids). I loved the kids but when we broke up it was like a set of giant boulders was lifted from my shoulders - which I felt guilty about at first but am glad it's all over, especially the kids haha. That was too much.

SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M

Don't do it unless you're totally prepared. Except for my own dad, I'm the best father I know. I'm proud to be a dad, am I'm so glad my kids love me. I wouldn't have it any other way.

AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M

Are you having a bad trip on some mushies?

separatetheheart · 31-35, M

@AdmiralPrune No I'm not into psychedelics

greensnacks · F

Don't have children just because you can and society tells u. Unless you are certain you want to sacrifice so much for them, don't do it. Kids are basically the ultimate biological role of humans. If you aren't prepared for the sacrifices, just live your life as an uncle.

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