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CONFESSIONS OF AN UNBRIDLED NYMPHOMANIAC - Questions that may never be answered

Just wondering...

Is nymphomania, a disease or the symptom of one? Why are the orgasms isolating just a few of us so incredible that we become addicted to them? ...I mean, even to the point of doing the wildest things sexually, sometimes even crossing into the realm of the Taboo, that we may never do otherwise, while caught up in the psychotic whirlwind of erotic splendor? Is it unfair or are we considered lucky?...an addiction that takes over our entire body, mind and soul, leaving us, in many instances, out of control.

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I know nymphomania is rare, but why does it take over the lives of those of us that have it? When I orgasm, I scream nearly at the top of my lungs, without refrain. My fingernails may puncture, pierce or even scratch until bleeding, those unlucky enough to have invaded my airspace and succumb to my embrace.

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How can I stop it?...or should I?

When I am at work, all I can think about some days is having my next orgasm. Is that fair to my employer, or to anyone else that needs my undivided attention at the office?

I practically run to my car when the workday is up. Usually, I go to exercise hard physically, in the gym, and that takes my mind off of my desires temporarily. But when I get home, unless I'm too exhausted, I have to orgasm in some way, or another, soon! ...and usually, multiple times!

Is there even a cure? Or, better yet, should it be cured? ...or is every minute of unstoppable passion and every last drop of unencumbered lust to be enjoyed and coveted while it yet remains?

Have I been so fully immersed in this addiction for so long that I may never rise back to the surface of normalcy? ...or am I in an eternal place of nirvana and bliss to be envied?

My consistent advice to everyone else is to love yourself for who you are. But does that same advice apply to me in this situation, because that's who I am?

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Am I being too open and honest while unlatching the flood gates to a river of ridicule? Does anyone get it? Am I all alone? ...just another isolated neurotic nympho?

Or am I to succumb to my punishment now for my transgressions by being attacked as an offender of the refined, as I usually am, when I expose my heart on social media?

Will my questions ever find an answer?

...Just wondering?

THIS SONG DEPICTS MY FEELINGS OF TRUE SEXUAL INTENSITY DURING THE PEAKS OF MY DISORDER ...no, I'm not kidding!

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Jlhzfromep · M Best Comment
First thing I say is: you are a wonderful writer, an artist with your words.

AS far as your post, I think it can be a huge positive as long as it does not get to the point of foolish unsafe behavior. Be who you are and embrace the pleasures you receive
Nighttalker · 56-60, M
@Jlhzfromep She is a very good writer! I definitely agree.

Amylynne · 26-30, F
Am I being too open and honest while unlatching the flood gates to a river of ridicule? Does anyone get it? Am I all alone? ...just another isolated neurotic nympho?

not but like me you learned perhaps that those of us so sexual have to keep it from many eyes, the desperate, the needy will ever see a Nymphy personality as some kind of gift to them
this is so far from the truth.
just because i enjoy a wider range of sexuality and a plethora of play mates does not mean, i dont care who I share this with.

but yes. discretion seems to be a needful part of the sexual focused life
It's a question we ask ourselves, and a situation in which many of us find ourselves. You delve into it much deeper than most people do. I applaud you.
Ontheroad · M
So, right up front I want to say I'm no expert, but I've lived a long life and have dealt with all sorts of things.

Any behavior that puts you in a dangerous, uncontrolled, compromising, humiliating or self condemning situation is likely a mental disorder. If it is uncontrollable, then it needs to be treated.

The fact that you have intense sexual feelings and organms isn't necessarily a problem, but if they are combined with any of the above, then maybe seeking some counseling might be a good idea.

I guess what I'm saying is if what you describe causes you concern, keeps you from otherwise living a fulfilling life or puts you or others at risk, then you should talk to a counselor/therapist.

Other than that, enjoy your sexuality!
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
No two people are the same in most respects. Whether it is physical aspects or ways of thinking. Think of those that have homosexual desires.

If you look at the various aspects in the nature of life there's no sexual type that is the same.

Take the sexual aspects of the Brazilian Neotrogla curvata with a totally different sexual physical design. Where sexual intercourse lasts for days and the sexual roles are totally reversed.

Not that as well. For while in intercourse she feeds off of her mate yet only encourage a longer mating.

The desire for mating is all consuming both physically and mentally. Yet in no way is that considered a disability.

So given your circumstances you need to separate your sexual desires from your actual disabilities.

Looking at your about me you speak of your disabilities. Those are separate things from your intense sexual desires.

While those disabilities may contribute to your sexual desires they are not actually the cause of those desires.

The problem is this society is not accepting of intense sexual desires. Where they are more likely the norm for you. So they call it a disability when in fact it's perfectly normal for you as an individual.

Try to separate those things in your life. Which could very well be extremely difficult given that one contributes to the other.

Yet acknowledge that you are a extremely sexual person naturally. In no way is this a disability, rather that in this society such intense desires are very much discouraged because of the way society is built.

To say anything else would be to classify any sexual difference as an abnormality. Including homosexual behaviors which is perfectly natural in nature.






More about Neotrogla curvata...

https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Neotrogla-curvata-n-spec-female-a-Forewing-b-Hindwing-c-Proximal-part-of_fig1_279566173

https://www.iflscience.com/female-brazilian-cave-insects-have-penises-and-now-we-know-why-50663
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@DeWayfarer
Wow, you are an amazing writer leaving much to contemplate :)

That took a lot of time to write and was very nice of you, thank you!
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@laurieluvsit see my recent post on my profile. It includes this and more.
Amy78 · 46-50, F
You’re definitely not alone but not sure you will ever find an answer.
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@Amy78
That is probably the best answer I have had. Not too many can even come close to relating.

It sounds like you are one of the very few that can, thank you Ms Amy!
Amy78 · 46-50, F
@laurieluvsit you’re welcome hun.
Amylynne · 26-30, F
ahh this is the post that made us freinds
@laurieluvsit
Yes I can identify, running off to gym and no you should continue to see where the rabbit hole leads!
dumasme · 51-55, M
Most men would fantasize about having a nymphomaniac with them... unbridled, non-stop sex... However, i can't imagine what a toll it takes on you daily, that's a lot to manage on a constant basis. If you're able to manage AND derive pleasure/enjoyment... it doesn't sound like something to 'cure'
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@dumasme
Yes, that gets complicated because being extremely submissive sexually I thrive off of assertiveness and aggressiveness. I want it, need it and crave it.

So, if there is any erotic chemistry involved, their assumptions are most times correct and the sky can be the limit as to how far I will go with them.

It is hard for most to understand this condition and the intensity that drives it. Even I don't.
dumasme · 51-55, M
@laurieluvsit Gotta admit, sounds like an experience but, for me or 'others' its just that an experience. Have you been able tto maintain meaningful or fulfilling relationships? You're more and a 'roller coaster' ride ;)
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@dumasme
My meaningful relationships are my family, my sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles and my parents. We are super close and strong. I do not seek committed relations outside of that. Maybe I will want to one day but for now I have tons of friends that I have meaningful relationships with and that is all I need. Thank you for asking.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I recommend just being you. If your condition controls or ruins your life, hurts your ability to keep a job or relationships, then address ways to cope and control it. Otherwise just be you and enjoy yourself. Lucky is the person that catches your attention.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@laurieluvsit So what do you think of Jason Momoa & Would You Do Him
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@laurieluvsit So what do you think of Chris Hemsworth ,& Would You Do Him
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@JohnOinger
My answer doesn't change from the one I just posted
Docdon23 · M
Some observations. First, I may be one as well, but only after learning tantra. Since i no longer ejaculate often, but have sex or masturbate far more than ever before, I am left with so much sexual energy and horniness I totally relate to everything you say. I do believe there is a chemical component to this--we get addicted to the feel-good chemicals that flood our bodies during sexual bliss, the oxytocin serotonin etc. probably little different from a drug addict or sugar addict or porn addict. Second, I would hesitate to use words like "normal". I think there is a spectrum of sexual desire-from far less than you or i seek, to as much as we seek. Society uses such terms to limit us and try to define us (negatively), since historically religion and society have condemned promiscuity, sexual lust, and even sexual desire. Personally, i would embrace what you experience--isn't it far more preferable than being a woman who did not enjoy or want sex much at all? Love yourself for who you are. the only caution is do not do anything to harm another or yourself, in any way. I know I embrace it!! It leads to more joy and bliss than most can imagine, and isn't that a delightful life?
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
Love the enjoyment you seek for yourself. perhaps you can find some comfort in knowing that you are able to extend that pleasure to another human being. Consider it a gift and the fact that it is somewhat uncommon makes it that much more valuable
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I enjoy your posts and I don’t judge you at all, however I honestly don’t have an answer.
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@BackyardShaman
Thank you so much!

It's not always a curse ...just sometimes
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
@laurieluvsit glad to know you get breaks from it, actually I’m very similar, getting into the wild moods.
LibertineWolf · 51-55, M
Awesome writing. Sorry for your issue but Is it really that bad of an issue?
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@LibertineWolf
I have learned to survive with it, to have no desire would be worse for me, yes
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
As a fellow person who thinks about sex nearly 24/7 i can tell ypu its taken me till i am 37 to be okay with being the pervert i am, i have the added issue of being demisexual so i cant just bone anyone i need that emotional connection to want to be with them, sexualy but i think of sex all the time i see hot people and want to be around them but its never to bone but i need to bone so i feel you hun you are not alone be proud of the woman you are you are so amazing
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@WolfGirlwh0r3
You are so sweet, thank you!
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
@laurieluvsit Maybe this shared heart space is why i always feel drawn to your energy to want to be your friend, please know im here for you if you ever need a shoulder to cry/lean on or an ear to vent to!
Dshhh · M
nymphopmania, is a word used by people wh get little or no sex to describe those of us that have commited to a sexual life
It is not a disease, but you can get over obsessed and make bad choices.
the label is not often applied to men but if it IS a thing? then I am one
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@Dshhh
It is the leadership and activists that are insisting that everyone conforms to their agenda.

I am fine with gays, lesbians and bisexuals (I and my sisters are bi) who mind their own business, as we do, but that is far from what the crazies running things are all about, very far.
Dshhh · M
@laurieluvsit imagine the furor if I "came out" discussing what I do and with whom. like you comment about what age? many would be livid, yet s many others agree
everything I do is 100% consensual. I would not have it any other way. That said many consent to what others would not. or would not approve of
Nighttalker · 56-60, M
@laurieluvsit you’ve made a great point on that!
bert199 · 51-55, M
I’ve never quite understood nymphomania, but I’ve learned to embrace it It’s part of what makes Me, me.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
It is a form of OCD/bipolar disorder. There are therapies that can help.
Speakyourmind · 26-30, M
I admire your frankness and courage for being who you really are.
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
Boy do I understand you right this minute as with other addictions I feel as long as they do not interfere with job and family relations then you should be able to be a productive person in society and enjoy your hyper sex drive. The caveat being people that miss understand the situation. Maybe it’s time to make that a public service announcement lol
LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
You do write exquisitely. I apologise for such a clumsy and possibly blunt question but, did starting early play a part in shaping your sexuality?
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@LostnFound69
Good question.

Yes, I think so definitely
LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
@laurieluvsit I think that’s more common than many will admit to.
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
We can find the answers to your questions together
Panamared · 70-79, M
How do you feel about you and having this constantly driving you
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@Panamared
It's a Blessing and a Curse
Ferric67 · M
Fine writing Laurie
SW-User
Had you thought about taking up knitting?
Dshhh · M
i gave in long ago. the idsea of nymphomania, is not that different from hysteria, a suggestion that a woman has something wrong with her if she is intense
and they never say it about men

but I think, hell i KNOW that it can become and addiction, one that ts superior most to all the substances
it is the only drug you can get from another person.
I have leaned to see us everywhere. that makes it very had to control


@laurieluvsit
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
Ignore those who attack you and enjoy being you as I very much enjoy who you are 🥰
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@Snuffy1957
You are too sweet!
PeterJ · 56-60, M
I think more people feel the same way than you might think. But probably won't say it out loud. I say if its a part of who you are than enjoy who you are. I myself find it difficult to get through a day with an orgasim one way or another
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@Amy78
That is probably the best answer I have had. Not too many can even come close to relating.

It sounds like you are one of the very few that can, thank you Ms Amy!
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Watch this movie. Maybe you can relate? It's in 2 parts.

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swirlie · F
@SW-User
Their British accents are so thick that I can hardly understand a word they're saying.
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@SW-User
Yes, I am aware of it, thank you!
DMmeyourtits · 26-30, M
You need someone who can/will take care of your needs every day, someone who will keep giving you orgasms over and over and over. We are all unique, there's nothing wrong with your urges. Suppressing them will only make it worse I think
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
Very interesting questions and I can see how it’s a blessing and a curse ❤️‍🩹
Ericthered07 · 46-50, M
Laurie -

I think it’s fantastic that you want and need to be taken to heights of sexual pleasure that few can even dream or imagine. To have multiple orgasms time after time and to have someone who is willing to appreciate and pleasure you in such a way is to be cherished.

Steve
JustaBuddy · 41-45, M
I doubt you are alone. Being honest with yourself is Always the first step.
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bgjb58 · M
If it doesn’t interfere with your life I wouldn’t worry about it. It sounds like a good healthy sex drive to me!
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laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@Jimthere4fun
Thank you for your kind compliments and for reading my post.

I just love seeing you in your silky panties :)
Laurie, I've missed SO MUCH!
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Vetman · 46-50, M
For me it feels like a curse I feel like it controls my life there’s probably never been a time in my life where I’ve been faithful in a relationship. It breaks my heart because I do love the people I’m with.
Docdon23 · M
wow--I think I am also addicted to sexual pleasure, orgasms, touch, erotic connection...
FatEight · M
You are definitely not alone. I was asked that question last night too
Her: And are you sure your not a nymphomaniac
Me: Probably am..lol
What can I do but say yes... embarrassing to some extent. But I own what I love, and I love sex. I too am constantly thinking about the next time I get to touch a woman's soft skin. Or feel the power of a great fuck!!
Wow I have to take a break....
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@FatEight
I am trying to guess what you need to take a break to do? ...lol
FatEight · M
@laurieluvsit I was so hard I was not able to process. I needed to stop my head from spinning thinking about so many possibilities. I had to change my focus and let things return to normal. 😘
jerMIguy · 41-45, M
You need to cum to my house! ;) I’ll give you a run for your money!
jerMIguy · 41-45, M
@laurieluvsit I’m willing to let you prove me wrong! ;)
wunderluv · 51-55, M
@laurieluvsit I think that what’s unfortunate is that guys in general can’t keep going over and over in the way women can
jerMIguy · 41-45, M
@wunderluv Maybe not in the same way…but I challenge you to wear out my tongue…and my fingers! ;)
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laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
@swirlie
You are very wise Ms Swirlie and I know you're right

 
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