I Have a Confession

There's a reason I'm not on here often. I hide this site from my significant other because it's one of the only places I can vent about everything in my life without his opinion and without him getting upset. It used to be that we could tell each other everything, but now that's not the case because he doesn't trust me since something that happened almost 4 years ago. But I have to have somewhere to put my vents where I can just say anything I want without someone judging me. I come here for advice and to let out all my thoughts that I'm not otherwise allowed to let out in fear of having him get upset. Does that make sense? I can't just keep it all bottled in, and it just feels good to put it in a place where no one else knows me. A place where I can just stay anonymous, but at the same time seek advice.

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updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well sorry but you have a bigger problem if you cannot speak your mind and talk about things out in the open that is wrong. I believe it part of the vows for better or worse for the good times and bad, and so on and so forth, Being forced to bottle it up could get him killed one day because your bottle would explored.

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@updown2020 I wouldn't kill him. I would just be gone. We aren't actually married, but we've been together a little over a decade. People see us as a unit now and what happens behind closed doors is a secret. Being on here helps me a lot.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@PoisonLace Well whether you are married or not it's still not good for you having to keep things inside? Well does he keep things inside to?

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@updown2020 Probably all the time. And yes, I agree with you.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

Venting seems like a good use of this site. If he doesn't get to share in that it doesn't seem like a big deal.

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StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

@PoisonLace I hope you can turn it around. Miserable is no way to go through life.

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@StevetheSleeve I've been miserable for a while now. Graduated college 2 or 3 years ago and couldn't do anything with it.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

@PoisonLace Graduating from college is a big deal. There must be some way to turn your degree into something you'd enjoy doing for a living.

canadarm · M

Yes it makes sense.
Similar for many of us, but great to have a space/people to turn to during those times.

hlpflwthat · M

Makes sense to me. I think that's what the anonymity is all about.

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@hlpflwthat It's best that way.

Muskie78 · 61-69, M

Understand completely, If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me anytime.

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

are you open to sharing what happened?

PoisonLace · 41-45, F

@Ohbabe I have posted about it on my profile a few times. My last post talks about it a little, and I here and there refer to someone I'm not going to name in a few other earlier posts. Message me if you aren't sure when you look.

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