I wish my thing was bigger

It's not as though it really matters or is achievable in any way, but it's the one part of me I'm insecure about. But that's not the problem irl anyway: I get rejected WAY before that could even be a consideration. I figure I'm just ugly or something because women I talk to online (and who can't immediately see what I look like) tend to like me, and all people are shallow to some extent.

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nazgul · 26-30, F Best Comment

The amount of effort you put into other methods can make up for that. Some women experience serious discomfort/pain with a partner above average (and average is probably smaller than you think). It's not a big deal unless you're getting into it with women only looking for casual sex. If a woman genuinely likes you and is satisfied with the effort you put into other forms of intimacy she typically won't care.