I wish my thing was bigger

It's not as though it really matters or is achievable in any way, but it's the one part of me I'm insecure about. But that's not the problem irl anyway: I get rejected WAY before that could even be a consideration. I figure I'm just ugly or something because women I talk to online (and who can't immediately see what I look like) tend to like me, and all people are shallow to some extent.