One thing that kept sticking out
from my conversation with the IT guy this morning was that he mentioned that shitty coworker would tell hom that she had always been an outsider, that she's never fit in, and has never had close friends.
I hear this and read this a lot in my daily adventures.
I told him that she has done everything she can to make sure no one wants to stay with her or include her in things. She constantly backstabs people and does very unfriendly things. I told him I don't think she is even aware she does it because it all has become key parts of who she is. She would need to go to therapy and be completely honest with the therapist to find her way out of where she is. But that won't happen because she never believes she is wrong.
Sometimes, I wonder how many people suffer from their own self inflicted isolation because they refuse to acknowledge that they may be the source of their loneliness.
I hear this and read this a lot in my daily adventures.
I told him that she has done everything she can to make sure no one wants to stay with her or include her in things. She constantly backstabs people and does very unfriendly things. I told him I don't think she is even aware she does it because it all has become key parts of who she is. She would need to go to therapy and be completely honest with the therapist to find her way out of where she is. But that won't happen because she never believes she is wrong.
Sometimes, I wonder how many people suffer from their own self inflicted isolation because they refuse to acknowledge that they may be the source of their loneliness.
