Uncontrollables
Stop being angry at people who don't change the way you wanted them to change
For me it's stop trying to help someone change the way I want them to change. Maybe the next step for me would have been anger. It's come down to being able to accept that they don't want to change. I can't convince someone that they need to work on being a kinder person. I can't argue them into having more empathy. Sometimes they show a strong desire to be a better person, but it's very short lived.
Be in a relationship where it's not a struggle to show consideration to your partner. There are people out there that you don't have to try to teach them how their actions hurts others or how to act like a normal and decent human being. Not only is all this too hard, it's not your job either.
For me it's stop trying to help someone change the way I want them to change. Maybe the next step for me would have been anger. It's come down to being able to accept that they don't want to change. I can't convince someone that they need to work on being a kinder person. I can't argue them into having more empathy. Sometimes they show a strong desire to be a better person, but it's very short lived.
Be in a relationship where it's not a struggle to show consideration to your partner. There are people out there that you don't have to try to teach them how their actions hurts others or how to act like a normal and decent human being. Not only is all this too hard, it's not your job either.
