This site hasn’t changed

Had someone ignore my message for several days.

Then we spoke a little and then I became busy for several days.

I responded apologising, which she ignored and so I messaged again. I got a blunt response and explained a very legitimate reason for having taken a while to respond. She had in her introduction an explanation that it’s fine for her to have late replies because she has a life out of this.

I remained calm and polite telling her why I was busy and also that I sometimes don’t get WiFi connection. Accused me of yelling at her (over text) for my message in which I apologised and politely asked her to elaborate on her experience she shared with me.

Still remained polite,and told her that I’m glad that she had a counseller she can discuss things with. At no point did I ‘yell’, swear, accuse etc. Naturally, she blocks me. I don’t know why it’s difficult for some people to just take accountability ‘I overreacted, I consciously ignored you for several days whilst feeling it okay for me to do it to others, thanks for explaining why you are busy and for still getting back to me’.

I don’t know why basic decency is difficult.

I’m still going to be polite and value people but urgh why are some like that? It’s a real person on the other end, with feelings