It seems like she's not interested

Been talking to this girl for a little bit, and I've been trying to get to know her a bit better. Thing is, she's been replying far less frequently since then and she seems uninterested. Of course there are myriad reasons this might be the case but this has happened to me enough to know it's likely just disinterest. I've mentioned it to her but at this rate it'll probably get a response tomorrow.

This isn't much of value. Just needed to express my thoughts to get them in order.

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Foreverconfused · 56-60, F

Keep being yourself. When the right person comes along whoever she is… will stay in touch.

But you may need to date someone who is into similar hobbies which are important to you. So. That you have enough to talk about. It’s. Essential. I think you need a female nerd.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Foreverconfused You might be right. I don't know where to find one of those though.

MissPerfect · 22-25, F

Time to move on

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@MissPerfect Fair enough

Scribbles · 36-40, F

Chatting to people always has an ebb and flow to it. Does she live in NZ too? Maybe you guys could go out somewhere?

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Scribbles she lives in Canada. I'm not expecting much, but still.

Scribbles · 36-40, F

@KiwiDan Ah, sorry. It's hard to keep up a long distance friendship sometimes. But I wish you good luck. Because some people do make it work🤞

Maybe there is a way to change things up, so it's not just chatting. Because keeping the momentum and interest going with just talking is difficult I think. Espeically if the two people might be more introverted.

If you find out she is still interested maybe you could switch things up and play a game online together?

Fingers crossed! Canadians are nice people :)

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Scribbles will have to see what I can do!

PepsiColaP

is it someone here

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@PepsiColaP yeah

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