I just snapped...

I have guests tomorrow and the house needs cleaning. I told him I want to clean and he said ok I have two hours of working and then Ill help u. But after ten mins I got pissed off and snapped. Got mad and told him I cant do it alone. He said ok , put his work aside and started cleaning. Now I feel bad 🥲 I shouldnt have lost it 😭

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ineedadrink · 56-60, M

Tell him what you just told us. If he's anything like me, it will go a long way towards making peace.

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@ineedadrink we already made peace. He is an angel. But I still feel bad.

ineedadrink · 56-60, M

@BarelyTamed Respect him by letting it go.

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@ineedadrink I try

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

No, you shouldn't have. You're telling him that your priorities are more important than his. Are the guests for you, for him, for the both of you? He has an obligation to help either way, but he said he would help after he did this other thing and he gave you a time expectation.

Of course, reason goes out the window when stress kicks in sometimes. It happens to everyone.

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DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@BarelyTamed Unfortunately, done is done. There is no putting a broken egg back together. The best you can do is try to make it up to him and try to do better in the future.

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@DunningKruger yes I did..

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

@BarelyTamed That's the best any of us can do.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, FVIP

You poor thing. Tell me how hard it is when u are trying to breastfeed a new born and you got a toddler crying and following you around the house when u are trying to clean the house before guess show up.

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@smileylovesgaming thats horrible. It takes superpower to overcome it.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, FVIP

@BarelyTamed make it even more fun with lack of sleep and u still have to take a shower and get dress. Your husband or boyfriend isn't home because he is at work

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@smileylovesgaming 😭😭😭
I will commit suicide

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dale74 · M

Are there any underlying issues that may have caused you to snap

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@dale74 I am very busy with my own job. And looking at the piles of work I needed to do, it triggered it

dale74 · M

@BarelyTamed do you wanna make it better?And truly express being sorry?

If so, take a moment, have him sit down. I'm in its lap. Give him a hug and don't say a word for the first few seconds.Then, say, i'm really sorry for my behavior.

BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew

@dale74 we made peace. He didnt seem mad at me. He just smiled and said whate else u need to be done before u panic again...and I said thank u and appologized

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