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gregloa · 61-69, M
Get in like 3 1/2 to 4’ of water. Hold your nose and close your eyes and let yourself go under. Relax and you will float back up. It might take several tries but when you’re comfortable try to lean forward while floating. You’ll soon realize as long as you’re holding your breath you’ll stay floating. Then when you’re ready simply start kicking and paddle your hands while floating. Presto you’re swimming and then start breathing while kicking and paddling your hands. Nothing to it.
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@gregloa thank u🙏

For both of your safety, make sure to tell your instructor about your higher level fear.
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Magicianzini Why? She is teaching 35 year olds to swim. She doesn't need to be told.
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Magicianzini How is the teacher unsafe? What is a 35 year old who can't swim going to do to her?

Maybe she will die of laughter. Is that what you're saying?
@emiliya Not every 35 yr old doesn't know how to swim because of fear. That's the minority. People who are heavily afraid of water can be extremely dangerous in the water. The instructor probably isn't approaching everyone as if she's ready to drown. 🤣

OP already stated she would let her know. That's great and responsible of OP.

Also there's nothing laughable here. Many people over 30 don't know how to swim. Welcome to planet Earth.
adhane05 · 36-40, M
I think it's admirable that you have enrolled in a swimming class. It may be easier than you think. 😊
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
It is, most certainly, a life enhancing, and potentially a life saving, skill
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
That’s not ridiculous
If you never learned when you were younger you never would
Good luck with your class
You’ll do great!
TravisTx · M
I think it’s a great idea that you’re willing to learn to swim. Face your fear head on and finally be able to enjoy swimming as a recreation. It’s great exercise too!
Confined · 56-60, M
An important skill to have, I taught myself at about age 5. I did not want to be out done by my older brothers. I love the water.
You never know you could end up in the water by accident. Being able to swim to safety is preferred.
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@Confined yes thats why I really want to learn it. But the moment my face gets in water I panic
Confined · 56-60, M
@BarelyTamed I dont like my face in the water but I can deal with it if I must. Once you learn it, its just a matter of practice in shallow water.
pdockal · 56-60, M
I'm sure you'll do fine
sparklingdiamonds · 51-55, F
Tell them you're scared..take it slow and see how it goes, don t feel pressured into doing anything you don't feel.ok with..I hate water too..😘
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@sparklingdiamonds thank u 🥰
emiliya · 26-30, F
@sparklingdiamonds You hate water? But you have lots of water in your body. And you have to drink it, and fill the bathtub with water when you wash. What about standing underneath it?

Do you want to look like a mummy? They don't have water.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
EVERYONE needs to know how to swim
Prison1203 · 61-69, M
It’s easier than you may think, my grandmother never learned to swim until after I pushed her in the pool they had , I never knew she couldn’t swim, scared the crap out of both of us , so do yourself and learn how
Birdbox1986 · 36-40, F
My cousin didn’t know how to swim we went into the main pool area where it was a certain level, but, it was deep, I taught her how to swim for free!!! There’s no need to be afraid try a shallow area then use a floating device like a paddle board or one of those tubes , to help you float
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@Birdbox1986 its not like I can move forward fast and steady
Birdbox1986 · 36-40, F
@BarelyTamed if you can float and paddle your feet and move your arms your swimming
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@Birdbox1986 thats inspiring thank u
You have made the right decision. Wish you the best.
You've got this
DomMan67 · 56-60, M
It is very admirable that you are facing your fear head on. Well done. Once you realize you are able to keep yourself afloat you will feel much more comfortable.
DomMan67 · 56-60, M
@BarelyTamed Since you can already keep yourself afloat you're going to be swimming in no time.

It is very admirable that even though you have panic attacks when your face hits the water you're still willing to try and that's why you will succeed.
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@DomMan67 thank u so much for ur heart waeming comment. I really hope I dont cancel it at the first session.
DomMan67 · 56-60, M
@BarelyTamed Don't cancel. You've got this.
Convivial · 26-30, F
No where near as embarrassing as drowning unnecessarily.... You're doing the right thing... Is never too late to learn something new... Enjoy
Convivial · 26-30, F
@emiliya when it can be avoided, yep
Alyosha · 36-40, M
@emiliya I am surprised to see you on the side of the victim.
emiliya · 26-30, F
@Convivial She is too scared to drown. Nothing is happening unless you are pushing her in.
Munumbis · 46-50, M
I couldn't swim at least not in a serious way. I'm from the Mojave desert water enough to swim in was more just to play. I never really developed any actual technique. I can swim pretty good now just from. Youtube videos.
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@Munumbis thats so cool
Munumbis · 46-50, M
@BarelyTamed I'm trying to get a dive certificate. I have a sail boat and I want to try my hand at growing food at sea. Stuff like muscles or sea vegetables.
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@Munumbis thats nice. Im sure u can do it
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AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M
Don’t sweat it.

I also never learned how to swim. There’s a humourus story about it that’s too long to post.

But I’m sure there are other things you can do instead.
Ontheroad · M
You can swim... if you don't panic and freeze up. Facing a fear is a huge step, good on you! Just be sure the coach/instructor knows of your fears, and don't feel embarrassed, they have heard it before.
BarelyTamed · 31-35, FNew
@Ontheroad thanks🙏
Softandsweet2 · 36-40, F
Your parents are the ones that should be embarrassed. Kids need to learn at an early age.

 
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