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Just back from the former mother in law's funeral.

I knew today would be difficult.
I'd known this woman for 42 years.

The place was difficult to find.
Woodland in the middle of nowhere. Even using GPS.

8 of us. Including her 2 surviving children in all.
It really brought home to me how few some of us have at the end.

The ritual bit over, we collectively went to a quiet restaurant and toasted the departed.
We all sat together and enjoyed a good meal while sharing memories.
It was nice.

Then the drive home. In silence.
I didn't even think to put some music on.

Seemingly endless roadworks; diversions and traffic jams marked the return journey.

And so passes another milestone in life
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
I offer my condolences.

I've only my cousin still alive from my and our elders' generations.

The number of "D. [year]" entries against names and deleted addresses in my address-book slowly grows.

......

What route? The M6? It was dreadful a week or so ago, and that on a Saturday night!
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@ArishMell A47. Absolute mess
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Picklebobble2 My journey should have taken about 7 hours. It took 9. Slowed by bad weather, road-works preparations, a complete closure of the M6 entry, a long delay by an accident or breakdown, another closure and detour... Then another detour only six miles from my destination!
MaryJo1996 · 26-30, F
I hope you're feeling ok. I can't imagine how tough such things are.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@MaryJo1996 The Daughter i was dating is currently going through breast cancer treatment. Stage 3.
She lost her partner last year. Also cancer.
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I am so sorry for your loss 🥀
Pretzel · 70-79, M
sorry for your loss.
Tracos · 51-55, M
Sorry for your loss....
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
My last elaborate funeral was my mothers. Now nobody has them. They are just gone.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Bless you.
Hoping for your healing soon. 🙏
It speaks to how poorly we remember such a rich thing as a human life.
JSul3 · 70-79
The longer one lives, the closer they become to being the only one remaining.

 
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