Docdon23 · M
It is all how you look at it and respond to challenges. I read a great book recently that says we all face challenges in life, and if we view them as growth and learning opportunities and treat them that way--ask what you can learn and grow from--then you are not as likely to say life isn't fair. Instead you may say life gives you challenges and even trauma but you am going to face it, grow from it and learn. I do not think fairness has anything to do with it!!!
dirge · M
yeah, I think, as someone else kinda pointed out, it depends on how you define 'fair'. fair meaning everyone gets/has exactly the same things/and that's just how it is - that'd be somewhere between difficult and impossible and would never really work. fair as in everyone gets both the same or at least as same as can reasonably be expected opportunities and consequences, then yeah... that should be a thing.
4meAndyou · F
"Fair" is a British schoolboy concept developed in order to play sports while abiding by the rules.
In real life, there ARE no rules, except for the laws we must obey to live in a civilized society.
The intense desire of the emotionally and mentally immature to live a life that is always "fair" is laughable.
We can have no idea what life would be like if it was always "fair" to everyone, every minute. One person's "fair" might contradict another person's "fair" or negate it. In other words...it is not possible. Not only that, a giant referee with all-seeing all-knowing powers would have to be in strict control of our lives every minute.
In real life, there ARE no rules, except for the laws we must obey to live in a civilized society.
The intense desire of the emotionally and mentally immature to live a life that is always "fair" is laughable.
We can have no idea what life would be like if it was always "fair" to everyone, every minute. One person's "fair" might contradict another person's "fair" or negate it. In other words...it is not possible. Not only that, a giant referee with all-seeing all-knowing powers would have to be in strict control of our lives every minute.
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
It certainly isn’t fair. I’d say it just points to the chaotic nature of the universe. Or maybe there is some plan to it all we cannot perceive 🤷
YoMomma ·
Uneventful?
SomeMichGuy · M
I don't think it would be boring.
bijouxbroussard · F
I’d be perfectly okay with boring if life were fair. 🤷🏽♀
None of these three conditions have to overlap, I don't understand attaching weirdness or boredom to fairness, this is like apples and oranges
You could take a fair life and make of it what you want, whether boring or weird
You could take a fair life and make of it what you want, whether boring or weird
MayorOfCrushtown · M
people definitely have different definitions of fair. LOLOLOL
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
At this point it certainly would be surprising.
I wonder who enforces karma in the Buddhist religion if they have no God?
I wonder who enforces karma in the Buddhist religion if they have no God?











