They say life isn't fair, and everyone seems to want life to be fair. but would life be boring or just weird if it was fair?

It is all how you look at it and respond to challenges. I read a great book recently that says we all face challenges in life, and if we view them as growth and learning opportunities and treat them that way--ask what you can learn and grow from--then you are not as likely to say life isn't fair. Instead you may say life gives you challenges and even trauma but you am going to face it, grow from it and learn. I do not think fairness has anything to do with it!!!