What do you do if your friend's partner makes you uncomfortable?

I do not know what I personally would do, since I've often liked to stay quiet, 😅 but with this kinda thing, I think I would say something about it. The difficult route is the best here, I think. Telling that you do not want it.

I do not know who is the best to tell, though. You could tell him directly, tell them both or tell your friend.
All could have their disadvantages and advantages.
If he is a otherwise a good guy that just doesn't know boundaries unless he's told, you can tell him directly.
If you estimate he needs more convincing or needs a deterrent and your friend will be on your side right away, you could tell them both.
If your friend would have the tendency to take his side if he would not take you seriously, maybe talk to your friend first, so that she has some time to make up her mind in your favour.

If all above wouldn't work, maybe bring another friend that is good with these situations and can help you.

well, I once just said in front of them both when i had similar experience .. ' that's something you should say to her instead of me, I am sure she'd like to hear it and probably would make her feel good"

then I told him privately, stop touching me. it makes me feel more awkward than I usually am


but back then I was way to shy to say...hey! stop it with the comments and touching!

now I would though

I’d mention it to him and her. It’s better to be uncomfortable to see how she’d react than to have him make you feel uncomfortable and unsafe.

Obviously I can’t relate but that’d be my suggestion.

I had an old coworker whose husband decided to ask all of us to dance with him at their Christmas party. He grabbed my snatch several times. Another coworker went and danced with him, and he did the same thing.

I never said anything to her and avoided hanging out with her. I didn't want to be the cause of their divorce, and all of her friends witnessed him doing that to multiple women at the party. Of course, when he asked his daughter's friend to dance, his hands were up in the air.

You should tell her. She may not handle it well, but she should know.

I think that's why he's doing it, because you won't say anything and he will try to take it further. When use your strength suddenly you will see a true shocked response. Be direct.

Whenever it happens, you need to tell him, on the spot: "please don't this. I don't like it and it makes me uncomfortable"

Your friend's partner doesn't seem to be a keeper, but she'll figure it out on her own.

I've had that too, friends ex husband used to stare at my boobs and make really inappropriate comments. Wasn't a massive shock when she found out he'd been cheating on her. 😔

You HAVE to bring it up. And hell just be unpleasant in front of him

"Stop that I don't like that."

Make a scene and make it awkward.

Voice yourself to him. Tell him you dont appreciate it and he needs to respect your personal space.

If my partner were doing that to a friend of mine I would want to know! It is super creepy and weird.

This is not okay. Have you told him directly to stop?

Yeah, I guess it's best to confront this. It won't stop otherwise.

I straight up tell people not to touch me if I don't want them too.

Tell her cuz tbh it sounds like he might hava thing for you and its best to shut that down

Don't be afraid to speak up

Inappropriate behavior deserves an appropriate response

Let your body language and expressions tell him.

Bite him