He wants children but I dont

We are married for 6 yrs now. I dont want to have a baby but he is insisiting. Becoming a mother is something I never wished for... what can I do? Im afraid he might say yrs later that I deprived him of being a father...I dont want that...

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

Blackie · 51-55, M

Well he should have thought about that before he married you. He was obviously letting his heart make lifelong decisions instead of thinking with his head. As much as he loved you he should’ve not married you if having a family was a deal breaker. Now he either needs to grind it out or man up and leave you knowing he broke your heart because he didn’t think things through. Pressure you to be a mom is a tricky situation because it could inevitably break you guys apart anyway.

yestestvennaya · 26-30, F

@Blackie She lied to him. It is now time for him to leave and produce children with a woman who wants his offspring.

Blackie · 51-55, M

@yestestvennaya that may be the case but theres nothing stated in the post that says that conversation took place. If it did then shame on her for going back on what she knew was important to him.