bijouxbroussard · F
I lost my son in a car accident along with his father, many years ago. Occasionally I feel sad that I never had another child, but I try not to dwell. I accept the life that I have, as a loving aunt and godmother. 😔
BlobbyMcBlobface · 100+, M
I'd have liked a son but it didn't happen, it hasn't affected me in a big way but i do feel that I missed out on taking a son to football, fishing, camping etc
beermeplease · M
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55
@beermeplease 😻😻😻😻😻
calicuz · 56-60, M
Having kids can be a struggle, but it's worth it in the end.
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@calicuz Only if they end up supporting you in old age. 🤣
swirlie · 31-35
@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays
...but it's not the kid's responsibility to support their aging parents anyway, nor is it the kid's responsibility to take care of aging parents when they can no longer live alone in their homes. That's not what kids are for and if kids are used for that purpose by the parent, then the parent is abusing their kids.
...but it's not the kid's responsibility to support their aging parents anyway, nor is it the kid's responsibility to take care of aging parents when they can no longer live alone in their homes. That's not what kids are for and if kids are used for that purpose by the parent, then the parent is abusing their kids.
ElwoodBlues · M
@swirlie Yep. Kids are totally a pay-it-forward proposition. Put all that effort into raising kids so that they will do right by your grandchildren. Pay it forward!
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
My life is fine, I don't think about having children at all. I've been told that I won't have anyone to look after me in old age but that seems like a cynical and selfish reason to have children.
swirlie · 31-35
I made a conscious decision for my future when I embarked upon entrepreneurial business ownership at 19 years of age, that having children would not be a part of my chosen lifestyle, nor could it be.
I like kids, but I only like other people's kids. I travel a lot with my business and I stay in a lot of hotels and I meet with a lot of interesting business clients both male and female, but having to deal with children of my own would simply not fit into that mix and I've always known that.
To contribute something to society that does involve children, I volunteer one afternoon a week of my time to hang out with terminally ill teenagers who are spending their last days on this earth living in a hospital, where I share my life experiences with them and talk about life as well as the afterlife as we all imagine it to be. The reason I volunteer my time with them is because their own parents don't. I rest my case.
I have always had a great life even as a teenager when I thought life sucked when I couldn't get my own way. And today, I couldn't ask for anything that I didn't already have. Money, though sparse at one point in my journey when I first got started in business, is now a non-issue, though I consider myself to be a minimalist anyway which means I need even less than I thought I did!
There are those who were born to be natural parents and there are those who became parents who had absolutely no business raising children of their own.
The difference between the two is knowing which category you fit into and not lying to yourself that you could easily do the opposite journey just as easily...
There are too many parents on this earth who suck at being parents and I will admit that I'm probably one of them, though I will never know for sure, but at least I won't lie to myself and pretend otherwise in the meantime.
I like kids, but I only like other people's kids. I travel a lot with my business and I stay in a lot of hotels and I meet with a lot of interesting business clients both male and female, but having to deal with children of my own would simply not fit into that mix and I've always known that.
To contribute something to society that does involve children, I volunteer one afternoon a week of my time to hang out with terminally ill teenagers who are spending their last days on this earth living in a hospital, where I share my life experiences with them and talk about life as well as the afterlife as we all imagine it to be. The reason I volunteer my time with them is because their own parents don't. I rest my case.
I have always had a great life even as a teenager when I thought life sucked when I couldn't get my own way. And today, I couldn't ask for anything that I didn't already have. Money, though sparse at one point in my journey when I first got started in business, is now a non-issue, though I consider myself to be a minimalist anyway which means I need even less than I thought I did!
There are those who were born to be natural parents and there are those who became parents who had absolutely no business raising children of their own.
The difference between the two is knowing which category you fit into and not lying to yourself that you could easily do the opposite journey just as easily...
There are too many parents on this earth who suck at being parents and I will admit that I'm probably one of them, though I will never know for sure, but at least I won't lie to myself and pretend otherwise in the meantime.
My life is going well. Healthy, happy, and financially secure.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Very wanting.
Not a matter of "couldn’t or chose not to" really.
More a matter that it takes two, both wanting to.
Not a matter of "couldn’t or chose not to" really.
More a matter that it takes two, both wanting to.
shinyplasticlove · 51-55, M
Never had any luck with women so no kids for me. My 4 Frenchies are my kids now.
Wiseacre · F
If I were young again, I wouldn’t have kids..what about u?
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I had a horrible childhood and I knew at an early age I never wanted to be a father.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Great!
No regrets.
None.
No regrets.
None.
Allelse · 36-40, M
So much better off!
Musicman · 61-69, M
We couldn't. Life is pretty good. My wife's health has suffered the last couple of years. Fortunately she is improving now. 🙂
Elessar · 31-35, M
Thinking that I don't have to struggle financially to sustain another one or two people, be stuck with a sh*tty job that I couldn't afford to lose, or even get wrecked by a divorce gives me peace in life
RedBaron · M
I don’t know it any other way.
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