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RohitKhanna · 41-45, M
True, a person cannot fake behaviour

SnailTeeth · 36-40, M
I think good is a subjective assessment.
One time, I bit my grandma when I was 4, and she bit me back. I cried.
Tell me who was good there.
IMO, my gram taught me a lesson the hard way, and I never bit anyone again.
Lately, I've been put through hell. I've bawled my eyes out.
Thought parasocial relationships would suffice for social rehabilitation.
But I needed to learn to stop crying. Sit with anxiety. Not look to others to make me happy.
I think crying and looking to gather a lynch mob over indignations suffered is far more worse.
Demonizing others openly is an aggressive, entitled act.
So, unless you're witnessing a pattern of behavior for yourself, and the person is unwilling to change when confronted, I wouldn't put any stock in the opinions of others.
I also wouldn't turn to others to find my own opinion. Been doing that lately, and it doesn't work.
The lessons you're here to learn in this life are your own, and everyone approaches life with different tools.
In some cultures, it's a virtue to be honest, in others it's an iniquity. In some, trust doesn't exist at all.
No matter where you turn, there will always be an echo chamber to support you.
Even racists and murderous incels have support groups of peers. Good is hardly relevant anymore.
Sheltered, naive, opinionated; these would likely be far more apt descriptors than ever saying anyone is good.
Some people are good at being bad. Some people wear the biggest smiles, right before they shaft you. Old Mafia trick, kill 'em with smiles.
Sharks know how to mask.
Don’t know if I’d judge them good or bad so much as angry and miserable. While there are those who can express those feelings appropriately, others unfortunately have the need to drag people down with them. Guess in some sick way it makes them feel better.
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I think they might keep it hidden more in real life,but a good person doesn't treat people bad anywhere.
I think you are right. What one does undercover is in the heart and under the right circumstances will will unleash it again and again even out there.
moonlightlullaby · 46-50, F
I agree with you, but things can get taken out of context online; without facial cues and verbal tones, etc
@moonlightlullaby yes, defintely that can happen
exexec · 70-79, C
I agree with you
YoMomma ·
No they are horrible imo if they are like that online 😳😳 just cause someone acts nice doesn't mean they are good tho.. some people are superficial and two faced .. there are degrees of meanness and niceness too tho
@YoMomma that's true as well.
YoMomma ·
@Lovebird this reminds me of this one super grumpy guy and his wife was dying of cancer movie where he builds a Farris wheel for her in his backyard but forget the name of it
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I think the anonymity and distance the internet provides lends to people showing their true selves more. The way someone acts when they feel safe from consequences is who they really are.
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I think he who has no sin should cast the first stone. No one is on SW bc they are a saint.
No i dont believe so
@Lovebird because theyve shown their true selves
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
Most people don't have the guts to be an a## in real life as they have to face the consequences much faster.

 
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