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Magenta · 61-69, F
"Faithful" cross section? Hmm... I think it could be every which way from one extreme to the next, going by observations over the years plus some I have known more closely for many years, yet...

I believe many come here to act out or behave in ways what they can't or don't in the real world. Which can defo leave the thought of the people on the street, in the grocery isle that you interact with, being "one of those extreme SW members and he's wearing a full diaper right now!". Yikes.

We really don't know people on here like maybe we think we do. As was said, we get glimpses.
Magenta · 61-69, F
@Infamous607 In some respects yes. But I also meant (some) people come to social media to project what they wish or pretend that they are, like wishful thinking.
We can name ourselves a Goddess or a Warrior or anything that we wish to be like an alter ego or separate persona.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Magenta
Hm
Yeah I get that..Didnt think about that one. Good thinking.
Now I wonder if those things we wish we could be or pretend to be, is who we truly are inside.
Thinking about that now.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@Magenta You are right come here to act out because we can’t elsewhere. Same people you know maybe not the same portions of weirdness or then again maybe is.

I think SW is likely to draw people who have things going on in their lives that they are only comfortable sharing anonymously. If so it is not a representative cross section of society, just of the more interesting people in it 😀
But you are still right that you never know what is really going on in someone else's head, or in their life.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@ThePatientAnarchist

". If so it is not a representative cross section of society, just of the more interesting people in it"

That's good, very clever 😊
val70 · 51-55
What is though a faithful cross section of the world outside? I'm not sure that we are even alike at times. Take the subject matter on the daily news. Who watches television coverage at both ends? Are we indeed general informed enough to even aspire to be in main stream of opinion? As a religious nut but non-American I refuse however to ever pray for Trump. There's much in that statement alone. As in stating that I'm a conservative
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@val70
That's the point right there. Some people get it, they can learn, they just don't want to.l
val70 · 51-55
@Infamous607 I know. I actually had someone here admitting later on that I was right about how peace in the Middle East is nowhere in sight now. Admit that the Two-State solution was gone because one side of the conflict doesn't want it any more and thus there's not going to be peace
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@val70
I think it takes someone exceptional to recognize when they are wrong and should evaluate their thinking.
Some peoples views are too involved with friends and work and church, to the point that breaking with some ideas if beliefs means they would have to go against every support system they enjoy.
And very few people are able or willing to do that.
So it is a literal waste of time arguing with them.
Same with us sometimes I think
So at least here, I know what the guy or woman I'm talking to is into because within the first five minutes, they'd let me know.

You might get glimpses but you rarely know who people are here either. So whether SW draws in a unique set of people or is just a microcosm of society is really anyone’s guess.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@OlderSometimesWiser yeah. But which one do you think it is.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
Well, even I don't agree about the app part, but it's not as effective as I thought. I don't know about you but I don't need a bunch of random new people and drama on this site.


This is a site for Me and it's perfect. here and nothing else c:
Spnk8 · 36-40, M
No I think you're right as I've ran into people that work at like Best buy or a restaurant that have ended up being into some crazy stuff lol. So I think there really are people on here that you probably have ran into or COULD run into in person.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Spnk8 Exactly. It might not even be from here, but if there's one here there's surely another just like him out there. Yes?
Spnk8 · 36-40, M
@Infamous607 yeah exactly
Baremine · 70-79, C
Some people here are real and some aren't. Some of us are living on past memories that we cherish and can't continue for one reason or other. But as irl there are those who delight in judging you.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Baremine I understand. As for myself, I come here when want some human contact. For a little i don't have to think about important things. And that's valuable to me.
Thank you for responding
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I do not think this is a representative cross section at all.

There are plenty of people who have no interest in social media involving anonymous strangers.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@DrWatson


I thought about that. And I think you are right. There would be large blocks in the Real World peoples groups that are not represented here.
Good eye!!
swirlie · 31-35
I have always known that SW was a cross-section of the real world out there, not a place where the different or the unique congregate after breakfast every morning, which by the way included blueberries, bananas, oatmeal and skim milk for me, proceeded by not one but two cups of coffee if you're taking notes.

I spearheaded an informal study on human behavior after I'd started my 2nd year of university when I was 19 years old. There was myself and 5 other girls conducting this study after I had hypothesized to my English Prof that people are exactly the same face to face with others, as they are when they're hiding behind a computer screen and largely unknown to the world.

He said no, I'm wrong.. so of course I had to prove it to him which was his ulterior motive in the first place to see what I would do about it!

I asserted that 'how' a person reacts to a question while face to face in the real world, he/she will react to exactly the same way while hiding behind their computer screen. That was the basis of my hypothesis.

The fact that we can hide doesn't change the fundamental core of our personality, nor does it change how we express ourselves about sex for example.

To keep this shorter than usual, what I proved in the end using random samplings from volunteers on campus, was that if you cannot tell someone face to face what you feel about some aspect of sex, you will not be able to speak your truth about sex while hiding behind a computer screen writing your reply instead of verbalizing it to someone. If you can't say it, you can't write it either.

When you hear people on SW talking openly about cross-dressing, about their diaper fetish, about their toileting issues and about what they want everyone in the world to know what they had for breakfast that day, they are showing you WHO they are and WHAT they're all about and how they actually talk or behave in the 'real world' offline, as well as online.

If they openly speak their mind here on SW, they will also openly speak their mind out there without hesitation. If they can't say it in here, they definitely won't say it out there either.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Spnk8
Those are all great points and I appreciate you taking the time to write all that.
I understand everything you are saying. And I think it's all valid.
But my point is different. I'm not asking if there's a difference between the things people say here and the things people say or do in real life. There is definitely a difference which is obvious because of the things you mentioned.

My question is this...

If we take inventory of all the member of SW and come out with I don't know,

1 percent teachers
4 percent military
8 percent young adults living with their parents
5 percent Lesbians without partners
15 percent super conservatives
9 percent immigrants

But also

The diaper wearers, the spankers, the show offs and the wankers, the mommies and pappies and sugar daddies...all those..

Would the percentage be the same in real life as the percentage on SW?
Spnk8 · 36-40, M
@Infamous607 it would probably be more in real life then on here honestly. Cause sex sells and the majority of the world has some kinda fetish whether sexual or not. And they have fantasies they don't tell everyone about. Trust me you'd be surprised the amount of people in real life that have a crazy fetish or fantasy that's sexual
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Spnk8
Yeah. Good point. Have to think about it. Thank you for that insight.
I actually agree that this a microcosm of the real world, with people living average lives offline. They make time for SW the same way they do other social media. That’s just how things are now.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@bijouxbroussard I'm inclined to agree. Microcosm is a good word for it.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I don’t really care what SW pretends to be. I simply come here to kill a bit of time and hopefully respond to a couple of people I like personally.

I really don’t worry about character because I trust my own.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Adogslife of course my friend.thsnk you for commenting.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I've wondered the same thing. I have no idea.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@JimboSaturn same here
I'm exactly the same IRL. what you see is what you get.
Nightwings · 31-35, F
I honestly think the majority of people here are the ones you never meet IRL because they have no friends, and receive money from the government instead of working.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@bijouxbroussard Of course!!
Nightwings · 31-35, F
@Infamous607 Lol I never meant people like you, me, or @bijouxbroussard, I meant those people who pee their pants and stuff, the ones you were talking about in your post. 😅

As for the small handful of people who interact here publicly (and don't post porn), I think there's a plethora of different reasons why they're here. ♡
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Nightwings I'm sure that's what you meant. But that's not how it comes across. You must admit that looking at it that way, it's very funny.
Now you mention those people who pee their pants like it's, you know, a normal thing, like ..oops btw I just peed my pants. How is that not funny.
Of course, people come here for many reasons. And as the commenter above pointed out, I am one of those people who come here trying to fill something that's missing in the real world. And I'm ok with that.
Still,
The question remains...Are you interacting with the same "off center" people on the outside as you do here. Only difference is that here you know who they are.
Yes? Maybe?
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Zonuss · 46-50, M
SW is whatever you want it to be.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Zonuss I'm not sure you read the full post. But thank you for stopping by.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Infamous607 It's a reflection of the world we live in.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Zonuss Thats what I think as well.

 
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