How do you deal with being alone?

I'm trying to become stable again. Gonna save up and live on my own like an adult. I will be alone. I'm still getting over some stuff from the past. It won't be easy. My heart thumps just thinking about it.

I know it might be hard to imagine being afraid of being alone. Especially if you've never had that fear. I didn't before either. Experiences change you. I'm terrified.

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TinyViolins · 31-35, M

I got a dog. Found another one. That kept me company for a while. I also got into movies. I got into working out. Started reading again. I steadily filled my life with healthy habits and hobbies and got myself to a point where I wasn't afraid of being alone anymore.

That really gave me the courage to start dating. I realized that even if things didn't work out, I would be fine. I had enough things to feel good about.