Realizing I have consistently abandoned myself in every relationship I have been in to try to be what the other person wanted

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Same and I am completely done with that. I'm me, I'm set in my ways, and if they don't like it, they're not for me. The right one (if he exists) will naturally align with me.

caccoon · 36-40

@DearAmbellina2113 this is more how I need to be, but mostly I think I am not patient enough.

I am looking for someone to save me all of the time and make things "okay" for me. NEWSFLASH TO MYSELF that is myself!! It's ME!! I am an adult now and I need to fkn love myself and be there for myself and stop swooning over any guy that gives me a scrap, wishing they'll heal me