Mr Van Man Crush is cute and all, but I'm over it.

He always makes sure to walk by me a few times, but he walks super fast. He always looks me in the eyes and we smile and say hi, but then he's gone. Maybe he's not actually interested, maybe he's shy, maybe he's busy, but he ain't making any moves. And I know damn well you don't chase men, you don't do all the work or they'll let you do everything until you're depleted.

I'm just gonna let it go. I'm not gonna make oogly eyes at someone forever. I'm worth making a move. Not that he isn't, but I'm not up for rejection right now anyway.

Probably just a dumb one-sided crush.

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Kuronekko · 41-45, F

I get that. It's hard to make connections with the looming threat of rejection. I'm still putting my confidence back together from the last typhoon that hit me lol.

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Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@MarbleMarvel The bar is so low lol 😆

MarbleMarvel

@Kuronekko and they still can't reach it!

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@MarbleMarvel Too true 😭

Ferric67 · M

He could be like I am, somewhat aloof

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MarbleMarvel

@Ferric67 he doesn't slow down! He zips past me smiling! I can't get a word in!

MarbleMarvel

@Ferric67 also, I don't chase anybody anymore. We can meet in the middle but I'm not getting stuck with someone who can't express themselves again

Ferric67 · M

@MarbleMarvel fair point me marble

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Sometimes just letting it be what it is, someone you can daydream about a little and share a smile with is good enough 😊

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MarbleMarvel

@MartinTheFirst I will never know him.

And yes that's happened plenty of times but I'm not stuck with anybody. Why would I see him every day? 😂 People don't stick around if it's not a good match.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@MarbleMarvel alright, sorry for being childish i suppose

Degbeme · 70-79, M

His loss.

MarbleMarvel

@Degbeme or no loss at all 🤗

Degbeme · 70-79, M

@MarbleMarvel nah... you`d be a treasure. 🤗

MarbleMarvel

@Degbeme I think it's going to be a long time before anyone thinks that... Maybe never. I don't ever seem to be worth it to others and that's okay. I know I am.