Everyone I come across always seems to hate me and every time I try to be nice it only seems to make it worse.

Story of my life, basically. And to make it worse it's not just in real life, but online as well. Like every little thing I say or write someone seems to take offense to. They're just sort of like "Really dude? Are you serious right now?" And then when I ask what I said/wrote wrong they were just like "Ugh...the fact that you don't know makes it even worse, honestly."

It's like all I have to do is exist in order to offend people, lol. And I've never really had any friends, really. Just acquaintances I'd hang out with once in a while at most.

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soar2newhighs

Hey, welcome. You’re subject to the often, “ hey dude”, etc. Comes with the SW territory, particularly regarding political issues.
If you get such responses, it’s most likely because they disagree with you. It’s not a personal thing.

pripyatamusementpark

Sometimes it's a misunderstanding in communication. It's good to ask for feedback . But ...sometimes it could be anothers perception of you is just different than you expect or it can be them projecting on you

Pambie · 22-25, F

Yes, I can certainly relate. What is wrong with people?

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cinsac

Why do you suppose that is?

Nihiless

Don't bother trying to be nice - most people aren't impressed with those who always appear 'nice' per se. Instead just be yourself and f*** what anyone else thinks.

SStarfish ·

What exactly were you saying?

acpguy · C

If you are a liberal / socialist then you know your problem as 99% of them do not have common sense. Cut out the fake news and possibly get educated at a conservative controlled school.

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