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Regarding my Husband Watch Adult or Soft Core Hentai Type Scenes in an Anime Series with Baby in Same Room

Ok so I spoke to him again and I still stand by every I said but he was defensive yesterday because he said that he had already read the manga for that series and it wasn't like that.
He said that there had only been a few mildly explicit type scenes in that anime which wasn't in the manga and that I had walked in at the worst moment. He agreed that if he hadn't walked out of the room himself that he would have turned it off too. He didn't know about the bath scene and he said that he felt I was overacting.

I feel slightly better. I still told him to watch it. Odds are honestly that my son wasn't really paying attention. He can't talk yet, but I don't want those scenes in his face as he grows more awareness.
Elisbch · M
It's not really a worry about him talking yet...

... it's more about learning about where his attention is going to be in the future..LOL 😂😄....(just kidding).

Personally I think you being concerned is the right thing to be. It's amazing what these little kids pick up and remember.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Hubby should grow up. At his age he knows better!
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
It's not the scenes that are concerning, it's the fact your husband can't seem to stop watching them even when it's inappropriate. He may be lightly addicted to them.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@CountScrofula That's another issue and although I do think that he watches alot of adult stuff I have never seen him cannot stop watching it or disrespectful in front of others.
He said that it was a misunderstanding and that this particular series had a few nude scenes that he wasn't expecting and I choose to believe him for now.
He does watch alot alot of normal anime with just regular characters and stuff.
I wish he would communicate more instead of walking away and say I'm overacting. That's what blows up the issue.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@REMsleep That makes sense. And yeah he needs to work with you not just get defensive!
@REMsleep Maybe you could get a little glass cup and mount it around his pee pee somehow to prevent him from masturbating so much.

I have all the best ideas.
I think that stuff is so creepy 😳 are you sure you shouldn't be more concerned like .. 😒
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@SStarfish I am actually very concerned and I really yelled at him but it is just Anime and tons of people watch it.
These are popular animes but if you watch anime you will know that half of them start getting semi kind of explicit that's how that works.
He is a guy used to watching them. It wasn't a hentai.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Anime alone seems a bit creepy to me for an adult male. The porn aspect simply makes it worse.

Then, add a child to the mix 🤯
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Adogslife Anime is not bad. I occasionally have watched an anime series. I also have liked regular cartoons. Think of anime like a living comic book. That's how it started out. If you have ever liked any super hero comic such as DC or Marvel it's the same thing. Think of how some of those comics are drawn.
The difference is that anime does not always focus on characters having powers but sometimes they do.
Also I would say that anime is a tad more sexualized in general than regular comic books but I have also seen some sexy comics when I visited a comic book shop once. There are also tons of regular pg kid friendly anime. One of my favs is The Last Airbender. ( An American Anime)

My uncle once had thousands of comic books in a storage room and some of those characters were pretty scantily clad.
It's just more common now a days to read or watch manga/anime than comic books.
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
People get hung up on the strangest things, and yet, still pretend Santa Clause is real.. lying to their kid for their entire life until one day the lie is discovered, and then they laugh and say.. but you were so cute when you believed.
Now an anime has nipples and its a big deal. lol.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@nonsensiclesnail Yes my father was inappropriate too. I don't believe that my husband is like that at all but I want to make it clear early. Keep adult stuff away from the child.
These days kids are exposed to soo much too soon. I am not afraid for my kids to see nudity but context matters.
@JamesBugman dude people still can't even come to an agreement that angels aren't real
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@REMsleep this … the context matters.

Nudity in itself is not the problem, as we are all naked under our clothes. When things are sexual it is completely inappropriate around children, and for so many reasons. @JamesBugman
Lol. Is he 15 years old?

I just can't with people anymore.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Royricky09 It was a misunderstanding and yesterday I was upset. He was watching something and a few minutes of cartoon nudity was in that episode and he didn't think it was going to go there and he stepped out of the room but he didn't communicate that to me and I had already asked him to watch some of the cartoon bimbos series that he sometimes watches but he didn't mean to watch that at that moment.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Why would he ever think that is ok? That’s very odd.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Moneyonmymind According to him and I believe him, it was just an anime that he had read before and the animators choose to include a little more titillation than was present in the written manga.
This is extremely common if you watch anime. It was rated for over 12 and up but I wouldn't want my 12 yr old if I had one to watch the episode that I saw. Just Google anime and unfortunately half of it is semi sexual in nature yet it is very popular and mainstream.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@REMsleep your concern alone should make him stop. That’s my point.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Moneyonmymind Agreed that's how I felt yesterday.
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