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Have you suffered from wanting fame but not having it ?

As an artist, I am suffering from it. It's as if I'm carrying a message that I'm not managing to deliver.
As if the deliverance isn't done properly and as if the impact isn't there
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
It is said that fame is fleeting, anonymity is forever.

imma stay under the radar. ;)
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User You are famous to us. ;)
SW-User
@Degbeme yes right... Indeed I am ...:)...
If I was equally motivated to spend that much time I'm spending here, in a place out there but about my art, it'd have been a game changer... perhaps
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User There is still time. Splash that colour young lady. 🤗
ABCDEF7 · M
No, I don't suffer that. It's not that I am not in profession that recognises people publicly. Nor is that I don't like to be recognised publicly. But I have learned to feel motivated in what I do, not in what I get in return. The outcome can be positive or negative, rewarding or demotivating. It's just I don't allow such things to make me suffer.

But yes, if the fame is directly proportional to my financial survival, I would like to introspect and do a proper analysis from an outsider's point of view. Sometimes you may have to sacrifice your freedom, and just live with doing what is required to make you survive practically.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
You have to have something to be famous for. And if it is to be other than fleeting and unsatisfactory I think that thing has to be something you really believe in and devote yourself to.

If you want to be famous for your art you are going to have to show it and sell it to someone who has the means to make you famous or at least advertise you to the wider world. You probably won't find that person on SW. And I hate to say it but you probably won't find them in Borneo either.

If you want to be famous while you can appreciate it you will have to be either supremely lucky or you will have to work at being famous as well as being good. No point in emulating Vincent Van Gogh and becoming famous only after you are dead.

I wish you luck and I hope it works. It would be cool to be able to say "I knew her before she was famous", even if it would be a bit of an exaggeration!
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
I've never desired fame; knowing that it would not bring joy to me.
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@SW-User i, then, wish you fame
SW-User
@QCDog2659 somehow this wish isn't feeling sincere. And it's not you most probably. It's confusing.
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@SW-User I truly do wish you to be happy.

If fame will help, then I want you to find it; without any of the bad things that may come with it.
SW-User
Every artist known to mankind is their own worst critic. Why? Well, there is this constant need for improving themselves in their craft. But when is time to call enough on this type of mindset? Is it till you have a mental breakdown or decide to call quits because you feel that your art will never be adequate? While it is good to learn how to critique your work, changing the way you approach the matter can have a significant impact on your overall mental health.
When glazing at your artwork, seeing all the mistakes, acknowledge them, and tell yourself you will try a different approach. After that, admire the great things and the effort you put into your creation. If it took endless hours to complete, reward yourself since you deserve it. Playing with words can change your mind and help push out negative thoughts you have towards your art. In general, if you practice having positive thoughts, your overall outlook on life will change.
Relinquish the mindset of perfection. Perfection will only send you down a rabbit hole of depression and anxiety. It only serves as a weight to pull you further down. Plus everyone has different views on what is deemed perfect. Is perfection a thing? Of course not! Absolutely nothing in this world can ever be perfect. Once you learn to let go of perfection, many doors will open, so release it.
With this in mind, change your ways on how you critique yourself because holding on to constant negative thoughts can damage your mental health.
Stay positive 🫶🏻
Montanaman · M
Definitely. 👍🤗❤✍
SW-User
@Montanaman it's crushing
JohnnyNoir · 61-69, M
I'm just trying to get more visibility for my photography. I'm by no means a top flight pro but I believe my work is as good or better than some I see. I've gotten a few accolades here and there but I'm really looking to establish a presence in the area
SW-User
No, but I know that draw with art, but art is about expressing yourself while it feels intimate within you and is, it is not about teaching others. The value of your art is only found within you.
Ontheroad · M
Not fame as in a public figure/star of some kind, but maybe more for who I am and not what I do or have done.
SW-User
@Ontheroad maybe that's something I'm lacking, true and sincere appreciation
Ontheroad · M
@SW-User After posting my response I thought a bit more about what I wrote... it's more me appreciating who I am. Seeing both the good and bad in myself.

Striving always to be a better version of myself. To, when I look at myself in the mirror (figuratively), to feel good/accomplished in and about who I've become.

Sure, it feels good when others (or even one other), recognize and appreciate me, but it's not something I strive for or want.

I am happiest, and feel most fulfilled when I can say (to myself), "You done good".
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I really want to be a fashion designer but I kinda got nowhere and I feel like a failure. 🥺
SW-User
@Strongtea I'll give you a good advice, you're still young so get out of my sad post and go out there to hunt for your dream!
I wish I could follow my own advice 🦅🤔
Well thank you young one, you definitely brought me some perspective here ❤
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Thankyou! That does make me feel a bit better! You’re still young!@SW-User
SW-User
@Strongtea yes, in my way I'm still young. Let's see what shall we do..
Yes. Let’s share our art with each other
SW-User
@mysteryespresso I'm sharing all the time, what about you ?
@SW-User will do. Let me check your profile
Pfuzylogic · M
Yes, but I would probably hurt a lot of people in the process.
For an artist, you are relatively young. I was best friends with an art teacher in my high school, who had been in New York, at the time of Picasso and his goats, and he shared with me that the business in art is very superficial in intent.
He dropped out of the New York scene and created art continually on his own with various shows. I learned a lot from him in my youth, since I really didn’t take much in from my own father.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
Don't need fame. I rather have my art speak while living a lonely life. Fame is bad for this world. Never be an Idol of a Golden Cow, that falling humans worship.


The best to do is wait for the world to change the behavior of humans.

We are getting close to that point....where humans are now starting to appreciate real artists like yourself.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
No. I'd absolutely hate random people recognizing me on the street, even locally. Only if I was famous by a pseudonym and nobody would know my face.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@CrazyMusicLover I've been recognized a couple of times, once in the street in Brighton and another time in a pub in Warwick by men from Fabguys.com. It was cool. Doesn't really count as fame though.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@SW-User The best of both worlds. You could feel accomplishment and earn a lot of money but also protect your privacy to the fullest.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@ninalanyon There are moments that are even useful. 😆 Like when I was ordering new eyeglasses and told the optician that maybe I wouldn't be able to pick them up and whether it's okay if my father comes and asked him for an official order paper or to note my name. And he was like: "oh, it's okay, I remember your father." I was surprised and told him he must have had good memory for faces and he just told: "oh, no, no, I know him from the media." 🙈
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
No. I’ve never wanted fame
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Sometimes it takes time. Many famous artist became famous later on.
It’s ok as long as you are happy and satisfied with you art.
And I agree with Degbeme. You are famous with us and we love you and your art.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
To some degree. 🤔
Lostpoet · M
Change the situation art is an expression of the self if you want more impact in your delivery and message you need to either put it out there more or make yourself more extreme.
Is it fame you desire or just commercial success or just appreciation as an artist? I can see you have options under any of those
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I don't need fame, but I understand there's a lot of artists out there, even AI now, so the stuff I make and don't share is insignificant.
RedBaron · M
Probably because art is specialized and the vast majority of people don’t appreciate or care about it.
exexec · 70-79, C
I had enough fame in my hometown to convince me that I never wanted it again.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Noooo. I'll take the money instead. I have the respect of my peers and I'm good with that.

Seeing people struggle with fame put me right off the idea.
Montanaman · M
@uncalled4 That's uncalled for!😅🤣🤗🤗
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Montanaman Indeed.
Ferric67 · M
I'm the opposite
I'd rather be anonymous, yet I feel that too many people know me
SW-User
What does fame mean to you?
StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M
yes. is it too late to get started as a famous breakdancer?
Bang5luts · M
I have felt that way. Once I got to the point that I couldn't go any where in my home town with out being noticed, I really regretted the notoriety

 
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