I want to declare just how much I dislike judgment and criticism.

I might be guilty of it too. I might have had too much of it. It might be beneficial. It can be used to some benefit. I still don't like it..

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

It's weighty stuff and if you've had too much like you suspect it just runs you into the ground. Some people behave like a racoon in a trashbag when critisized or judged in any way (I'm not talking about you here, I should just clarify). I'm constantly debating, internally, how much I should react and after like half an hour I come to the conclusion I need to stand up for myself without being dishonest, without that little bit of injustice just to punish them more than they deserve creeping in
and without being angry cause that's when it becomes a wrong fighting a wrong, if you see what I mean?

I think the people who flip out are doing better than me healthwise but like I said, I'm always wondering if I should just be a bastard.