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What do you look for in a person

What qualities attract you, or steer you away?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
A healthy amount of friendliness and distance by the first encounter. I'm attracted to people who are a bit quirky but sane enough to not want to immediately know your zodiac sign and read crystals for you, if you know what I mean. Someone who I can have a normal conversation with and who has ability to keep their spiritual or political beliefs to themselves if I show them I have no interest in discussing such things with them.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@DHggmu Exactly. I am a bit put off by the strange "saint" look in the eyes of some too. I know it doesn't necessarily mean they are dangerous but they give me an impression of a loot, like there's not a real person in their natural state, just a programmed loot that was carefully taught how to feel and behave and you feel like you need to walk on eggshells around them to not offend their religion. In a better case, it's as if something raw natural was surgically removed from them, in the worse case, they have a fanatical glint that reminds me of drug users and creeps me out.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@CrazyMusicLover oh yeah, the holier than thou types, I feel for young people who get raised in households like that.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@DHggmu Sometimes holier than thou and sometimes simply way too polite, way too nice, in a sense cowed and infected with guilt just for being born. That's Christians though, I think this way of thinking isn't indoctrinated in other religions.
Anyway, if someone has a good heart, I want to feel it from their core or at least feel they have a good moral compass not because they fear their god or punishment after death. That is not what being a good person means.
elafina · 36-40, F
Firstly I'm like an animal, I want to have a feeling of security and to smell nice, meaning healthy.
And then I'm like a child, I want the words coming out to be sensible and sensitive, rational yet magical..
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@elafina Love this :) very nicely put.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I like laid back people who aren't judgemental. They think before they speak. They're considerate, honest and silly. They laugh a lot and don't need to talk shit
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@AlchemyFox Completely agree. Each to their own, respect others opinions and we’re all good.
Tarnished · 26-30, M
If they match my vibes, then they'll be my homie.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Tarnished Agreed
Magenta · F
I don't [i]look[/i] for anything. But will notice the individuals, less mainstream.
But it's probably more of a sense or vibe. I prefer some seriousness, a little reserved. Mature. Friendly but not [i]overly[/i]. Having manners... At least initially.

Repellants are loud or obnoxious, Overly flattering.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Magenta I agree with these, especially the repellants, I can’t stand loud and obnoxious people, I’m a lot more introverted, so they overwhelm and annoy me.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Personality is like 80%. Then how do you treat pther people, what skills do you have to offer. Then looks is like 2%
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@GuyWithOpinions How they treat others is a good one.
Blondily · F
I look for respect, honesty, caring, kindness, sympathy in others.

I abhor perverted people. I have zero interest in them.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Blondily All admirable traits that I value in a person :)
Intellect attracts me,and opposite does the opposite
DHggmu · 31-35, M
smiler2012 · 56-60
@DHggmu 🤔looks are a consideration but for me personality wins it for me every time
SW-User
Looks first, personality second. Both required.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SW-User agreed, but what personality traits?
SW-User
If their meme game is strong.
MrsMONAKanful · 36-40, F
I don’t know what I want
I don't think I [b]look [/b]for qualities, but I do try to notice what people present and show .

Honesty and openness attracts, deviousness and deceit repel.
One lie and I feel a physical sense of repulsion instantly.

How 'bout you ?
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@OogieBoogie I completely relate with honest and open.. I’ve always lived by the notion of being completely honest about my past with people, that way it’s all in the table, accept it and me or move on :)
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I like people that are funny, considerate of others, empathetic and intelligent.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@iamonfire696 All traits I look for :)

 
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