Is it hard to parent today?

My 21-year-old stepdaughter has taken the scenic route to independence. She's mastered the art of relying on me for rides because she's "too afraid to drive."

I've had to draw the line, encouraging her to spread her wings and conquer her fears. It's not always easy, but I believe in her ability to grow.

Have you faced a similar situation with your young adult child resisting the road to adulthood?

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SunshineGirl · 36-40, F

First, driving is pretty scary owing to the volume of traffic and over-confident drivers on the roads. Secondly, why should the ability to drive a private vehicle be seen as a rite of adulthood? The younger generation will be paying to clear up the environmental mess their parents leave behind. I would be quietly thrilled if my daughter took a principled stand to be a lifelong pedestrian.