would you choose a lack of convenience over emotional abuse

I would never choose emotional abuse. I would just walk away if I am not in a position of power. If I am in a position of power, I would tell them "I don't like it when you speak that way to me. Please leave as this conversation is over."

If my living situation relies on them, I would record them and collect evidence to eventually get them removed if I could. It's nightmarish but I deserve better.