would you choose a lack of convenience over emotional abuse

popmol · 22-25, M

my father emotionally abuses me since childhood i learned to lie for convenience just to lie than let him yell at me until he tires himself. so i think i do

popmol · 22-25, M

wait i think i misunderstood the question :p

wackidywack · 22-25

@popmol I feel like you didn't but for clarification purposes, why don't we try again

choose only one:
1. lack of convenience
2. emotional abuse

popmol · 22-25, M

@wackidywack emotional abuse for sure, i'm used to it by now, most things i do are for convenience :p thats how i meant it!
i read it the first time not as "lack of" but just convenience!

PepsiColaP

For a long time I stayed with what was convenient despite the abuse I was subjected too. When I eventually left that situation I found myself feeling more peaceful and content despite losing out on those conveniences

twistedrope · 26-30, M

I would never choose emotional abuse. I would just walk away if I am not in a position of power. If I am in a position of power, I would tell them "I don't like it when you speak that way to me. Please leave as this conversation is over."

If my living situation relies on them, I would record them and collect evidence to eventually get them removed if I could. It's nightmarish but I deserve better.