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Have you been divorced and why?

Yes…. Because that was my better option than the alternative…
Love2know · 36-40, M
@Soossie I had a son from my last marriage and he’s with mum. I sometimes feel jealous that she used me and she gets to have him. Second marriage definitely helped me.
calicuz · 56-60, M
@Soossie

I'm glad to hear you got out.
@calicuz

Thank you my dear friend… 🤗🤗
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Yes. In my early 20s. He was physically and mentally abusive. I refused to stick around until he killed me.
SW-User
@LadyBronte Very sad, for you. Glad you got away and freed yourself
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User Thank you.
CestManan · 46-50, F
We had our reasons. It was an amicable divorce.

You might say our marriage "ran it's course". The last couple years we fought a lot and eventually decided, maybe better to end it.

I have no ill feelings towards my ex. Maybe even still love but we just cannot cohabit.
SW-User
@CestManan I feel you did the right thing. Mine became more distant after year three. We haven't spoken to each other since
Ontheroad · M
Yes and as to why, it's a bit complicated, but my ex is a fantastic person, an even better mother and still my best friend ever.
Serenity1980 · 41-45, F
Yes. He had mental health issues and there wasn't anything I could do.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Never been married. 😞
Nor have any kids. 😢
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
Yes, I divorced more than 2!0 years agio.
Because my ausband
- cheated in me permanentely
- abused me physicslly and psychically
- wanted to kidnap our baby
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
I'm never getting married, so I won't have to deal with that. Lol.
SW-User
Yes. But not a story I am willing to share here.
No.
I told him when he proposed that I wasn't marrying him just to get divorced and I meant it.
but we should have, many times over.
I don't know why people bother with the legal formality of marriage.
If it's for religious reasons, fine. If its not then why do it?
Confined · 56-60, M
My x was mentally ill. She walked out on me and spent a year plus homeless. Karma was not kind to her. She ended up skid row housing. I have not heard from her in over a year. Not sure she is still alive. She had an accident in 2020 and lost an eye. She was in bad health.
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
Not divorced but I was engaged once. We broke up because he was extremely financially irresponsible, could never hold a job and had a jealousy problem. I also have a bad temper and made things worse.
Love2know · 36-40, M
@QueenOfZaun Sorry for asking I just wanted this topic to be shared and want to feel that I’m not alone.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Yes, my marriage of 33 years had run it’s course. Two why’s, sex and money. There was no sex and she refused to make any money because she felt I made enough.

Eventually you feel like a plow horse - laboring away for the benefit of others.

No rewards.

The end.
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Yes, she left me for one of my mates she was five months pregnant with our youngest daughter.
Love2know · 36-40, M
@cd4259 That’s sad. Do you still see your daughter?
cd4259 · 61-69, M
@Love2know she took my oldest son and his three sisters, only one of them speaks to me as they have been made to believe that I am the devil incarnate.
SW-User
Yes, the relationship started to fizzle out after three years. We grew apart
CestManan · 46-50, F
@SW-User Like me and my ex. it happens.
SW-User
@CestManan It certainly does
No..Why? u ask..well coz I have never been asked and also so never been married to begin with 😉🤷🏼‍♀️
Repete · 61-69, M
Yes twice first one we had no choice, the second one was a very bad decision.
Yes because he loved his addictions more than us
CestManan · 46-50, F
@SlippingAway When someone has addictions, especially things like drugs or alcohol, getting that fix becomes the main priority. It isn't right but addiction does not negotiate.
Imsleepy · 31-35
Yes. I realized I wanted a different future.
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
Yes.

Because she no longer wanted to be married to me.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
I divorced him because he had no ambition
Spumoni · 46-50, M
Almost done with mine
Vetrov · 61-69, M
Not me
Never
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Yes. She wanted out, and I eventually gave her her wish.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Love2know · 36-40, M
@uncalled4 I meant why would she say she wanted out?
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Love2know I never got a straight answer.
Azlotto · M
Yes...She cheated, lied, and stole from me.
SW-User
Yes. Because it was for the best.
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
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