It has taken me a very long time to figure out why I keep logging in here.

It's certainly not to chat with anybody, nor to check on my friends. There are no chats, and no friends for me here. I have some "Followers", but I really don't understand what they are following, or why.
Finally came to the conclusion that I log in in the hope of getting a message from someone. Pretty dumb really because it never happens.
But at least I have sorted out my "why".

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PoetryNEmotion · F

I come here to get messages from my friends. I still hope to get a message from I don't know who about who knows what. I haven't received that message yet. Occasionally I reach out to a stranger to give advice. And I enjoy reading here. You would be surprised at who drops by and chats with me. Some people I never hardly knew do this. And there is the connection that many of us want here too. I care not on the number of followers nor popularity nor selfies garbage.

SW-User

It's always really freeing when we understand our why's.

Miram · 31-35, F

Is it someone in specific or anyone?

snofan · M

@Miram Nobody specific at all, just an observation.

LunarOrbit · 56-60, M

Keep your expectations low and be yourself.

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

You're not alone there

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

So you know why some people often follow.

The system has a ranking system. The more you follow others the more "popular" you are the more privileges you receive..

https://similarworlds.com/help/57-You-reached-the-limit-of-X-you-can-Y-for-now

...Limits can go up and down depending on your profile's reputation. Once you continue to be a good member on Similar Worlds, your limits will be increased and you will have more freedom.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I think we chatted and I offered that we could talk more but you weren’t interested.

I am sorry you are feeling this way though.

snofan · M

@iamonfire696 Not at all that I'm not interested, more that I am really reluctant about assuming there is a connection - especially with a female - when there might not be yet.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@snofan Well the offer still stands if you would like to chat💗

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