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I hate feeling like I’m behind 😣

People my age and even some younger, are so much farther in life than I am 😕 I need to catch up it’s sad honestly 😅
Justforfun65 · 56-60, M
Life is not a race just slow down and enjoy life
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@Justforfun65 you’re right 😌
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
It’s not a race. Take your time and enjoy it. It goes much too fast as it is. ♥️
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@QueenOfTheNerds you’re right, thank you. Sometimes it is super hard to just live in the moment though 💜
candycane · 31-35, F
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Live your own life, at your own pace, not someone else's :)

If you feel a need to catch up with someone else you may end up where they want to be, not where you may want to be. Enjoy your own journey.

I'm with Jusforfun65 and the others, it's not a race.

It's like with infants and toddlers, some may start walking at 9 months, others 12, others much later. It's not a predictor of where they will be in 20 years, nor how happy, nor how loved.
LadyGrace · 70-79
You're fine. Those feelings can come from comparing ourselves to others. Don't be hard on yourself.
My friends that are of the same age and I are all at different points in our life because life doesn't happen to us, it happens for us. The finish line is an illusion because once you reach it, you'll find yourself with new goals. You're not behind. You're right where you're supposed to be.
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@HijabaDabbaDoo Thank you so much for that, I definitely needed to hear that 😊💜
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same here i feel like i can officially start my life when others will already be out there having fun but ignorance is bliss block those thoughts
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@SW-User I feel the same way, but you’re so right 😌
Not unusual to feel that way when you’re young or even when you’re older. But you never know what others are going through and often the “successful” ones have bigger issues that you don’t know about. And I’m betting some if the people you envy are actually envious of you.
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@BiasForAction I never thought of it like that, thank you 😊
@SW-User Sometimes the most powerful tool at our disposal is a change of perspective, something that can be attained from listening to others.
TrunkZ · 56-60, M
We all move at our own pace and in our own direction. The thing about being envious of others is we only envy the good and may not consider the negatives that accompany what others have done.

You do you 😌😌
Fluffybull · F
People develop and achieve at different ages. Some do well very young but burn out. Some plod steadily and achieve later. Most of us do our best, have ups and downs but do ok and have fun too. 👍
ABCDEF7 · M
Everyone is different and has a different life. Don't compare yourself with others. Just make yourself go on the right path. Life is a journey, not the destination. Enjoy the life..
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IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User @nightjourney completely understand what you mean, just take your time and be pressured at all, we’ve all achieved something somehow, I say just being a kind person nowadays is an achievement!
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IamBack · 31-35, M
There’s no life manual to tell you that you need to achieve certain things at a certain age.

“Way ahead in life” is extremely relative.

Don’t get hyped on what you see on social media 🤷🏻‍♂️ that person who’s “happily” in a relationship could be miserable as fuck, or just graduated college could be working in McDonald’s coz there are no jobs.

Don’t compare, we all live our unique story. Period.
You can't be behind if your age bracket is correct.

And if you try to keep up with OTHERS' dreams...you'll likely miss out on your own.
@SW-User Oh...SweetHeart...of COURSE there is!

There are always new mountains to climb in life...and new things to master and celebrate.
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@SW-User It sounds as though what you really need is direction & purpose. Even if you have a provisional direction/purpose, you can begin a path and do what EVERYONE else does--change it to fit changing circumstances.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
You are still young
Casheyane · 31-35, F
Your competitor isn't them. Let them live their lives. You live yours. Your timeline is different.

You only have a problem when you're not improving from yesterday's you. Now that girl, your past self, is your true competitor.
OceanRoses · F
Enjoy, once I reached past 30, yrs fly. Learn as much as you can save as much also. Every journey is unique. Talents you have use it as income or career find your niche go with it. Best to you🌅
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@OceanRoses Will do, thank you 😌
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I'm many years behind too and also had this thought in the past, but as long as you're making progress that's what matters. You've got many years of adulting anyway so what's the rush
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Do it in your own pace. Sometimes, the tortoise starts slow but finishes first, when the hare runs out of batteries half way.
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@SW-User I’ll try and remember that 😌
MrNightSky · 46-50, M
You are much better off to take your time and get it right rather than rush and end up where you dont belong.

I speak from experience

There is no rush.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I’m older then you and I sure as hell don’t have my life together😅
You’ll find your own path🤗
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@JRVanguard thank you 🤗
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@SW-User Of course my friend
Good luck
Here for you if you ever need a friend🤗
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How I felt as I was being told that. Don't fall for it.
You are on your own journey. Do your best.
SunshineBlues · 22-25, F
Everyone lives life at their own pace . Don't compare yourself to them. Be yourself and live your unique way.
My daugter says the same thing....dont worry there is still loads of time
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
I very much understand 😌
Isthisit · F
Youre only young
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
You're behind some and ahead of many others. Life isn't a race. I didn't start my real career until almost 30 and it happens, but I found a way to be happy. I was a mess on your age range and things turned out pretty well.
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we make fun of those kinds.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Run like hell
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It isn't bad to feel competitive

Just make sure what you're basing it on isn't illusion
candycane · 31-35, F
Why go so fast slow down girl cause u turn your head and your 30.enjoy your life don't rush it
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@candycane It’s just so hard when I don’t feel like I have time to enjoy my life 😕
candycane · 31-35, F
@SW-User that's why u slow down take pics have fun cause once older it's less fun it's more work
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@BetweenKittensandRiots Thank you and cool song 😁

 
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