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Heartlander · 80-89, M
Live your own life, at your own pace, not someone else's :)
If you feel a need to catch up with someone else you may end up where they want to be, not where you may want to be. Enjoy your own journey.
I'm with Jusforfun65 and the others, it's not a race.
It's like with infants and toddlers, some may start walking at 9 months, others 12, others much later. It's not a predictor of where they will be in 20 years, nor how happy, nor how loved.
If you feel a need to catch up with someone else you may end up where they want to be, not where you may want to be. Enjoy your own journey.
I'm with Jusforfun65 and the others, it's not a race.
It's like with infants and toddlers, some may start walking at 9 months, others 12, others much later. It's not a predictor of where they will be in 20 years, nor how happy, nor how loved.