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Will you marry your partner even though they are carrying/having genetically disease?

Like diabetes, cancer, high cholesterol in blood, etc..
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Of course !
Lostpoet · 31-35, M
My sister says i am disease
[@780464,Lostpoet] you are not a disease.
Lostpoet · 31-35, M
[@1158409,littlepuppywantanewlife] 😁 Thank you brodda 🍻
Sophiesmiles · 18-21, F
I have diabetes so it would be a bit hypocritical if I said no - also it has absolutely no impact on anything
Royrogers · 61-69, M
[@1203119,Sophiesmiles] oh dear poor you
Sophiesmiles · 18-21, F
[@471995,Royrogers] it’s fine, I don’t need pity, it’s not such a big deal 😊
Royrogers · 61-69, M
[@1203119,Sophiesmiles] I was just trying to be nice
Tobasco · 26-30, F
I’m a diabetic so it would be hypocritical not to accept that in someone else. I’d want them to manage it, though, and I do as well.
Classified · M
Would be sad to deny a woman over that. 🥺
Elora · F
It is sad to end things after being with the same person for so long … but sometimes it’s needed also … it is what it is 🌎 🕯 [@444927,Classified]
ilovefood · 22-25, F
[@444927,Classified] Well, I have high cholesterol (I got that from my dad sides, my brother and I also got that too) and might carrying cancer (my mom and my grandma died from breast cancer).

I've been thinking a lot to find a love life but I think I should forget about it. It's too much disease in me to carry and I don't want my children suffer become of my bad genes.
Classified · M
[@1136252,BossaNova] Why is it sometimes needed?
[@580819,ilovefood] What if someone you like wants to be with you anyway? When they are aware of possible complications and accept those for the gain of being with you.
ginnyfromtheblock · 22-25, F
of course. death comes for us all one way or another
ArishMell · 61-69, M
Those are not conatgious or infectious; but you might find youself being a carer as much as spouse, if that's what's worrying you.

At least diabetes and high cholesterol are fairly easy to control.
Elora · F
That’s what wedding vows mean don’t they 🤔
ilovefood · 22-25, F
[@1136252,BossaNova] People change. When they got pushed so hard, they probably gonna leave them.
Kimchigirl · 31-35, F
ilovefood · 22-25, F
[@1201561,Kimchigirl] Are you willing to go through it? It's so much commitment to take care someone ill.
Kimchigirl · 31-35, F
[@580819,ilovefood] If I love him, I'll be willing to go through anything
Nope
Sounds like hard work
PepsiColaP · 22-25, F
yes unless its a dick disease
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
{@ilovefood ] for those reasons it would be a poor show not too
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Yes I would.
4meAndyou · F
If you love someone very much, then you love them. You don't want to be with some hoser for the rest of your life...you want to be with the one you really love.

Most people don't THINK about things like diabetes, cancer, or high cholesterol in families when they are in love.
ilovefood · 22-25, F
[@387713,4meAndyou] I know but at certain point this person might have second thought during the relationship or this person is more thinking about "good healthly genes" / "jackpot genes" to make sure their children inherit those good genes (this is mostly happen in arranged marriage or some elites stuffs or more focusing about heritage/legacy etc idk).
4meAndyou · F
[@580819,ilovefood] If this is an arranged marriage, then it is the PARENTS who should be having second thoughts, since there is no love involved.
LilSapphieGirl · 26-30, F
MilitantIrishman · 26-30, M
[@934648,Nanori] Well seeing as you wuv me

*kneels*

Marry me pls 💘
Nanori · 26-30, F
[@8731,MilitantIrishman] soybean
MilitantIrishman · 26-30, M
[@934648,Nanori] I'll take that as a yes then 😈

Maybe soybean means yes in nohamistan language
[c=004A59]When I was dating, yes, I would have considered someone with a disease that could potentially be passed on. I didn't plan to have kids anyway, having serious health problems of my own.[/c]
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
I wouldn’t mind
Everyone does or eventually will have something wrong with them
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
Hey, that's my kid you're talking about 😤

 
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