Ever feel used and abandoned in life ?
in my teen I felt a lot more time but doing such things again & again , don't know why ? I think I was really fool
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JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I feel abandoned. But I really was never connected to anybody as an adult, so it is not as if anybody really abandoned me (who I met as an adult).
I feel abandoned by my family and relatives. We have lived 100's of miles apart for two decades. I have not met some relatives in years. I never call my parents anymore. I only want to chat with people on here, to be honest. My parents only call me now about once every two months.
Yet even on here I feel so alone and empty at times.
And off here I am always alone, and often empty. I am not joyful, to be honest.
I feel abandoned by my family and relatives. We have lived 100's of miles apart for two decades. I have not met some relatives in years. I never call my parents anymore. I only want to chat with people on here, to be honest. My parents only call me now about once every two months.
Yet even on here I feel so alone and empty at times.
And off here I am always alone, and often empty. I am not joyful, to be honest.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@JoyfulSilence You could try one of the those group date sites, or group activity meet ups. I've been meaning to but I'm strapped for money rn.
taneegoan · 31-35, F
@JoyfulSilence 😢quite similar with my life
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@Coralmist I joined a "free" dating site once. Then I learned that to chat you had to pay. So I lost all trust in all such sites, free or fee. At least this place is free and has not lied to me yet. But I know this is not a dating site, of course. But I have fallen for women on here. None have fallen for me, though.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@taneegoan So sorry about your abandonment and loneliness.
I was in a park today in the US, and encountered a huge family having a picnic in the woods. They looked, dressed, and sounded like they were of Indian descent. They were having a lovely time based on their volume! I could not understand what they were saying, though.
I was in a park today in the US, and encountered a huge family having a picnic in the woods. They looked, dressed, and sounded like they were of Indian descent. They were having a lovely time based on their volume! I could not understand what they were saying, though.
taneegoan · 31-35, F
@JoyfulSilence you know i always respect elder that is one part of my life but in another part some time i was naughty with them , yesterday i teased some one here , he did started first so i did with him , but he took that seriously , i beg apology but he did start insult me and first ever yes first ever in my life in this site since the beginning day of this site , he blocked it's hurt me a lot , that is life when never got what you want and you got what you don't want
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@Coralmist I once considered meetups. But I got scared so abandoned it.
I think I share a little of your problem. I fear people won't like me, or that all I will do is lament to them about my life which will turn them away. I did not think I could just be calm and happy and interesting.
But that was 8 years ago, and I have chatted with people on EP and SW for 7 years. I never had chatted online before. So I am more calm. But it is all on these sites.
I think I share a little of your problem. I fear people won't like me, or that all I will do is lament to them about my life which will turn them away. I did not think I could just be calm and happy and interesting.
But that was 8 years ago, and I have chatted with people on EP and SW for 7 years. I never had chatted online before. So I am more calm. But it is all on these sites.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@JoyfulSilence It's so strange how we can't look at ourselves objectively, but we can surely with OTHERS. people would like you, for sure.✌️🙂You enjoy hikes and various cuisine, and I'm sure other interests too. You DEF would click with someone in a meetup.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@taneegoan I apologize, I do not fully understand your sentences. I am sorry somebody on here got upset with you. I know how real emotions can get. I have had crushes on people whose names I never knew, and have had crushes on here with people who I never saw. It is so different than reality.
I have played around on here, though, when I was not expecting a relationship. I just wanted to get off.
Usually if I have deep feelings, I am more careful. And in most cases the woman I feel for is already in a relationship, or does want to be my boyfriend. So no naughty chatting goes on.
I have played around on here, though, when I was not expecting a relationship. I just wanted to get off.
Usually if I have deep feelings, I am more careful. And in most cases the woman I feel for is already in a relationship, or does want to be my boyfriend. So no naughty chatting goes on.
taneegoan · 31-35, F
@JoyfulSilence pardon me for my bad english but you judge perfectly what i mean to say
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@taneegoan It is OK. I cannot speak or understand anything but English.
I hope you found meaningful friendships on here.
I hope you found meaningful friendships on here.