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How do you define a pervert?

Ladyryan · 51-55, F
Pervert is anything beyond vanilla ✌️
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Ladyryan · 51-55, F
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@Ladyryan Prefer vanilla but am very anti judgemental.

I am open minded about BDSM, I mean like a lot of it isn't for me but I don't look down on people who do it.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
Someone whose whole life and personality are driven by their deviant sexual tendencies. Someone willing to defy social mores and moral absolutes to indulge sick fantasies.
Mahdkvp · 26-30, F
@SwampFlower Yes, ok. But do you not see how subjective it is, and how geared to a personal intelligence or experience?
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
@Mahdkvp I do.
@SwampFlower just curious though what do you consider deviant and sick? Because even there' might not have universal agreement. I mean I agree with you some acts in that space are sick and depraved but I mean I don't know that everyone sees eye to eye about which ones are.
SW-User
Someone who finds every reason to turn something sexual and make people uncomfortable.
Bushmanoz · 61-69, M
@SW-User oh that answer is hot
Jasondf · M
The term has been thrown around so much it’s almost meaningless at this point.
SW-User
Everybody's a pervert to some degree
realrare · 51-55, F
I would define “pervert” as someone who seeks to see others in a self indulgent sexual way. I wouldn’t describe them as anyone you’d actually be able to have a relationship with as their needs for gratification out way everything.

That to me is a pervert.

Now someone who gets pervy or has perverted ideas is something else.
Mahdkvp · 26-30, F
Pervert - to damage the mind or will of a person so that he thinks or acts in an immoral way... To cause to be misused, falsified, wrongly understood.... A person who is given to abnormal sexual practices.

The Longman English Larousse dictionary, 1968
Mahdkvp · 26-30, F
@Mahdkvp Using this definition every woman who used excessive make up or high heels, or any other artifice to make a man take interest in her is a pervert! Wow!
@Mahdkvp this is one of those areas where the dictionary tries to offer definition and clarity and just mucks things up further because it's like what the hell kind of sexual practices are abnormal? What even is normal in that space? especially becuase "normal" beneath the sheets has a -shifting- defintion based on what is average in any given era. So like many many moons ago people would look at you weird if you liked hentai for instance and yet these days that's gone more and more mainstream.

although on second thought editing this comment to express something: I don't think liking that stuf is abnormal, I do myself. I notice you sometimes post anime girls so...

I didnt like the way you might misread that and think I'm judging you.
SW-User
simple .. it's called rowena
I generally try not too coz I think it's a very fluid thing. Like I think feet are kind of gross and wouldn't fetishise them at all. That doesn't make a foot fetishist a pervert though. I dunno for me its kind of live and let live.
SW-User
Male, bald, hairy hands, 55-70 y o.
Redstar · 36-40, M
@SW-User Nah, don't worry about it :P
SW-User
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Uncfred · 61-69, M
@SW-User To think, I have been a pervert all these years and never new it.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
It's like addiction. It's when it becomes a problem that makes someone engage in anti social behaviour
True perverts are closet dwellers and you never know what defines them
Lanyx · 41-45, M
Someone who's lover is in colledge and his wife old enough to be a grandmother.
when they are naughty but the intensity is beyond the regular
Deserthiker · 61-69, M
Every adult human
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
I guess me
MethDozer · M
Use It In different contexts. It should be pretty obvious to anyone reading it at the time.

 
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