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Do you sometimes gage your value....

...on another's measure of your worth?
Poppies · 61-69, F
I have done that, but I don't do it now as much as I used to.
Tibby · 26-30, F
@Poppies Progress worth far more than perfection.
Ksmile14 · F
Almost always. :(
Tibby · 26-30, F
@Ksmile14 Truth simply spoken luv. 🤗
Ksmile14 · F
@Tibby Thank you 🤗😘
Tibby · 26-30, F
@Ksmile14 🤗🤟
Piper · 61-69, F
Sometimes, that is something I struggle with.
Tibby · 26-30, F
@Piper Human nature perhaps. We all do at times
Piper · 61-69, F
@Tibby It is most difficult for a child to not gage their worth by the words of others, I figure. Still, those doubts and insecurities linger long into "adulthood" for many, many humans...I have no doubt.
Tibby · 26-30, F
@Piper So important to come to terms that this moment is where life takes place. The past is granted only power that we give it.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Not anymore.
Tibby · 26-30, F
@JupiterDreams Good for you girl. 🙂
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Tibby Your posts are motivational :3
Tibby · 26-30, F
@JupiterDreams Awww... My current smile belongs to you alone. 🙂
Coppercoil · M
I have value? 😳
Tibby · 26-30, F
@Coppercoil Absolutely.
okaybut · 56-60, M
Definitely...others are great mirror of ourselves with countless opinions, sometimes wise which we have to watch for. However, but in the end, we must satisfy that which lays within how we define ourselves.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Nah, I'm my own worst enemy. People tend to think far too highly of me, in my own opinion.
Tibby · 26-30, F
@ViciDraco I've come to the personal conclusion that what others think is none of my business.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@Tibby Humans are a social species. We need each other. I would not say that what others think of you is not your business. But instead it should be more of a guidestone than a defining feature. Knowing can help highlight areas for self-improvement. But it also requires a degree of wisdom to filter out which opinions are reasonable vs. unreasonable. As not all people are reasonable. And even reasonable people might have insufficient experience with you to form valid opinions.

I guess the tldr is, it's complex.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
yes i have and it wasn't good
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Tibby · 26-30, F
@RogueLoner Perhaps it's some small change.... You need to make.
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