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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I can't speak for anybody else but for me I feel more comfortable doing my own thing.
Yes life can be lonely at times.
Yes there are times when it might feel good to be part of something I don't have to organise for a change.
But ultimately I don't get caught up in anybody elses dramas; I don't have to consider anybody elses wants or needs; I don't have the 'worry' of whether I should do or say anything to anyone about anything.
Life is just far simpler.
Yes life can be lonely at times.
Yes there are times when it might feel good to be part of something I don't have to organise for a change.
But ultimately I don't get caught up in anybody elses dramas; I don't have to consider anybody elses wants or needs; I don't have the 'worry' of whether I should do or say anything to anyone about anything.
Life is just far simpler.
EmilyEdith · 56-60, F
@Picklebobble2 It's better than being stuck in a dead thing too.
I wasn't alone in that situation and there was less manual labor involved. That was nice.😴
But I knew I was being fake. I was ashamed.
I would rather represent who I am, take it or leave it.
I wasn't alone in that situation and there was less manual labor involved. That was nice.😴
But I knew I was being fake. I was ashamed.
I would rather represent who I am, take it or leave it.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@EmilyEdith Yes life's hard enough with all the compromises you have to make with regard to people you HAVE to deal with.
I also think it doesn't do other folk any harm to realise they aren't the centre of your social universe and that sometimes your choice to be separate from that is a good thing.
I also think it doesn't do other folk any harm to realise they aren't the centre of your social universe and that sometimes your choice to be separate from that is a good thing.
EmilyEdith · 56-60, F
@Picklebobble2 agree!😊
Mona86 · C
Because people like to play games, and waste your time on you, then decide you aren’t what they want, then change their decisions as if you’re a puzzle game!!!!!!! I DONT LIKE THAT, games are good for a little bit, but have no idea that they have ruined, you and your perspective of life and people!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤯🤯🤬🤬🤬🤬🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😤😤😤😤😤😤😤
EmilyEdith · 56-60, F
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Idk I’d love to be independent and lonely, I envy all those in the reddit sub r/lonely especially the ones who whine about being lonely tho they’re so rich w so much free time, like how tf can they not enjoy their own company?
Mona86 · C
I’m not lonely and do enjoy my own time, it’s when people interrupt your life @SW-User
SW-User
@Mona86 what
Mona86 · C
What?@SW-User
Andy69 · 51-55, M
@SW-User I agree, that is in some cases true, not all people choose to be alone or lonely, isolated ! But it's a cruel tough world and not everyone is accepted !
Magenta · F
I think sometimes the underlying reason is self centered. It's easier, they don't have to deal with others or give of oneself, commit, etc..
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Have you met the people out there?