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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I can't speak for anybody else but for me I feel more comfortable doing my own thing.
Yes life can be lonely at times.
Yes there are times when it might feel good to be part of something I don't have to organise for a change.
But ultimately I don't get caught up in anybody elses dramas; I don't have to consider anybody elses wants or needs; I don't have the 'worry' of whether I should do or say anything to anyone about anything.
Life is just far simpler.
Yes life can be lonely at times.
Yes there are times when it might feel good to be part of something I don't have to organise for a change.
But ultimately I don't get caught up in anybody elses dramas; I don't have to consider anybody elses wants or needs; I don't have the 'worry' of whether I should do or say anything to anyone about anything.
Life is just far simpler.
EmilyEdith · 56-60, F
@Picklebobble2 It's better than being stuck in a dead thing too.
I wasn't alone in that situation and there was less manual labor involved. That was nice.😴
But I knew I was being fake. I was ashamed.
I would rather represent who I am, take it or leave it.
I wasn't alone in that situation and there was less manual labor involved. That was nice.😴
But I knew I was being fake. I was ashamed.
I would rather represent who I am, take it or leave it.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@EmilyEdith Yes life's hard enough with all the compromises you have to make with regard to people you HAVE to deal with.
I also think it doesn't do other folk any harm to realise they aren't the centre of your social universe and that sometimes your choice to be separate from that is a good thing.
I also think it doesn't do other folk any harm to realise they aren't the centre of your social universe and that sometimes your choice to be separate from that is a good thing.
EmilyEdith · 56-60, F
@Picklebobble2 agree!😊