To feel hurt at this

I wouldn’t be hurt but I’d ditch him. You’re his person when nothing better is around.

There's no right or wrong to how you feel - it's how [i]you[/i] feel. Letting somebody - anybody - say you're wrong to feel that way only sets you up for feeling even worse down the line.

So, with that out of the way... I think the more important question to try and unpack is [i]why[/i] you feel that way. Are you jealous that she has the majority of his attention? (It's a genuine question, even though I probably sound like a bit of prick for asking it...) Hurt that he's mentally distracted to the point of not responding quickly? Does he do this with [i]every[/i] text you send, or only some? If it's only some, is there a pattern - like, does he get lost for late afternoon / evening texts? Weekend texts? Morning texts? If there's a discernible pattern, that may help you work around the issue for a while.

How long has he been with this other woman? That is, is this new relationship still fresh and new? Or have they been together for a while now?

I think if you can take a step back and unpack why you feel hurt [i]and[/i] at the same time try to figure out if he has any patterns and such, it may help you out.

There's no right or wrong. You're grieving and adjusting to his new life. I'm sorry you're hurting though

It does hurt when that happens. Now you know the kind of person he is and can avoid him next time he’s alone.

People should and will take care of their SO first. That's just how it is.

If he thinks he's just found the love of his life then it's understandable that she'd be at the top of his list.

The real questions is though if you thought he'd just found the love of his life too how would you feel about no longer being #1.

He's a cunt , kick him to the kerb

Yes you are right

I guess if you liked him, that sucks that he found someone else. He has someone else to care for him now.

The answer is yes. Don't be so quick to go running when this chick disses him.