
SW-User
Maybe a strange way to put it, but at least it sounds like he is trying to improve something
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@SW-User I guess so

SW-User
Feels like there’s too much context missing for anyone to make any judgement on it.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@SW-User He recently separated from the kids mother
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Well, it is factually true, as all relationships are a work in progress. There is the implication of criticism, though, and probably not self criticism, so there's that.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@DunningKruger Criticism towards the son?
Prisoner69 · 26-30, M
Yes
Xuan12 · 36-40, M
I would think it's a strange thing to say. Not everyone is good with kids, and your kids don't often turn out how you imagined. But it's a lifetime deal, so do your best and accept it for what it is.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
Depends if he was just playing or not
If he was serious
I would be concerned as to which one was the kid
If he was serious
I would be concerned as to which one was the kid
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Jenni855 I would have to know what he meant
and why he would say such a thing to a 7 yr old
I am all about making my son know the value of things he gets
Doing little things to earn things he wants so he gets nothing is free
Respect and manners ,to listen to those I allow to be in charge of him
But no I could not ever see me saying anything like that to my son
I have walked away when he had me angry ,so I was not about to punish him while I was mad (which is very rare ) ,we always talk over why he is in trouble and he agrees his punishment fits whatever he's done ,before he is punished so he knows its killing Dad to punish my little man ,but he needs a reminder so maybe he wont repeat what it is he has done .to know some times things we do have consequences,
Adults have rules too .
So I have said "right now it may seem you won this one " Dads taking a time out .
But I assure you it only seems that way ,,we will be talking this over when Dad calms down (and my Ex said WTH ,why would you say that
But no, the work in progress is one I would want explained
I explain everything I do and why ,that is why my son loves and respects me
That one gets me ,I would want to know why he said it to a little boy
and why he would say such a thing to a 7 yr old
I am all about making my son know the value of things he gets
Doing little things to earn things he wants so he gets nothing is free
Respect and manners ,to listen to those I allow to be in charge of him
But no I could not ever see me saying anything like that to my son
I have walked away when he had me angry ,so I was not about to punish him while I was mad (which is very rare ) ,we always talk over why he is in trouble and he agrees his punishment fits whatever he's done ,before he is punished so he knows its killing Dad to punish my little man ,but he needs a reminder so maybe he wont repeat what it is he has done .to know some times things we do have consequences,
Adults have rules too .
So I have said "right now it may seem you won this one " Dads taking a time out .
But I assure you it only seems that way ,,we will be talking this over when Dad calms down (and my Ex said WTH ,why would you say that
But no, the work in progress is one I would want explained
I explain everything I do and why ,that is why my son loves and respects me
That one gets me ,I would want to know why he said it to a little boy

SW-User
Yes..more understandable if the son was an adult. Sounds like they are dealing with something big
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Yep.
I'd have to ask him why his love isn't unconditional
I'd have to ask him why his love isn't unconditional
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Picklebobble2 I did think that but I also know he really loves him. It's odd.
marava · 41-45, F
Therapy for life