How do I distract myself from messaging someone!

@thatgirllllll Has he told you that he isn't "ready" for a relationship? Or are you assuming It? If he has actually told you, find something to distract yourself, and don't communicate with him. Distractions can include new hobby, self care such as meditation, getting your nails done, new hairdo, joining a group that does something interesting, reading books by a new and entertaining author.

@greenmountaingal yeah he has told me. And thank you for the advice! Not sure how long ill be able to keep it up since i already miss speaking to him but I'll try x

@thatgirllllll You can't control feelings, but you can control your actions.

@WildHeart nono we are good friends, but i'm starting to have feelings for him which im trying not to have since I know he mentioned in general before that hes not ready for a relationship.

@thatgirllllll Ahh now I understand. Its painful to suppress ones feelings, but have you ever considered that maybe he might feel the same? Nothing is worth losing a good friend over in my opinion.

@WildHeart yeah its hard but iv been hurt before so im so scared to let these feelings grow. And we have kissed recently but i think he only sees me in a sexual way and as a really close friend because even if he did like me he said hes not ready for a gf when the topic did come up one day in general. I love talking to him so its hard...

@SW-User perfect